If Only He Knew: A Valuable Guide to Knowing, Understanding, and Loving Your Wife

Gary Smalley

May 2012 · Zondervan · Narrated by Maurice England

About this audiobook

Over 600,000 copies sold!

The perfect guide for husbands who want to love their wives and strengthen their marriages in a way like never before.

So you want your wife to . . .

• Understand you?
• Appreciate you?
• Be more responsive sexually?
• Support you during hard times?
• Admire you?
• Share your interests?
• Listen to what you have to say?

In this revised and updated edition of his classic bestseller, Gary Smalley explains a woman's deepest needs, shows men how to meet those needs, and gives ten simple steps to strengthen any marriage. He helps men to understand not only how to respond to a woman's feelings, but also how to make her feel important.

Using the latest research, humorous and touching illustrations from his own life, as well as case histories and biblical examples, Gary Smalley maps a blueprint to a better marriage that will have a deep and lasting impact on men and their wives.

Companion to For Better or for Best. Spanish edition also available.

Ratings and reviews

There's some decent advice here. Unfortunately the message gets lost in the constant biblical references by the author. I was looking for a book to improve my marriage, not join his church.

About the author

Gary Smalley was one of the country’s best-known authors and speakers on family relationships. In addition to writing The Blessing and The Two Sides of Love with John Trent, their book The Language of Love (newly revised and updated) won the Angel Award as the best contribution to family life. His national infomercial, Hidden Keys to Loving Relationships, has been viewed by television audiences all over the world.