PAM: Smart Family Planner

PAM NZ Limited

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About this app

PAM is the family planner designed for real life.

Meet PAM, your always-supportive family assistant who quietly takes the mental load off your plate. Built for real parents (and real chaos), PAM helps you organise the juggle, share the load and keep your household moving without feeling like you’re juggling so many balls that your heads going to explode.

Whether you're wrangling school events, sport schedules, partner coordination, toddler meltdowns, neurodiverse brains or all of the above, PAM is there to take a load off your shoulders, reduce the mental load, and get everyone on the same page.



SEND PAM anything
School newsletters, invite screenshots, daycare emails, sports rosters, “what to bring” lists, a photo of a permission slip you swore you wouldn’t lose.
Just share it to PAM, and she’ll read it, extract what’s important, and pop it into your calendar or task list automatically.

SHARED FAMILY CALENDAR
• Combine work, school and home schedules in one place
• Colour-coded events for each family member
• Sync with your device calendar
• Add partners, kids, caregivers, grandparents or your whole village

REDUCE OVERWHELM AND KEEP TRACK OF WHAT MATTERS
• Smart tasks generated to keep life on track; RSVP, gift buying and gear packing reminders.
• Helpful nudges and reminders
• ADHD friendly planner and support

FAMILY TASK MANAGER
• Assign tasks to anyone
• Shared shopping lists, chore lists and reminders
• Keep everyone on the same page

MENTAL LOAD SUPPORT
• Offload the remembering
• Let PAM help organise the details you don’t have capacity for
• Build a more balanced household

BUILT FOR REAL FAMILIES
• Busy moms and dads
• Single parents,
• Co-parents
• Blended families
• ADHD parents and households
• Grandparents & carers
• PAM helps your family stay coordinated, connected and supported, every day.


MYPAM (Free)
No paywall. No credit card trickery. MyPAM is great if you’re flying solo, or just wanting to really get to know PAM before inviting the wider family.

MyPAM includes:
• Transforms emails and images into a smart calendar and tasks
• Brain-dump into PAM Chat

PAM VILLAGE (Paid)
PAM Village is where PAM really rolls up her sleeves, supporting your household like the calm, competent adult who somehow knows exactly what needs doing without you explaining it 45 times.
Everything in MyPAM, plus:
• Add up to 6 people to your Village, each with their own view
• Smart nudges that help (not nag)
• Shared responsibilities (finally!): Assign tasks to your partner, kids or carers without another “Can you please help with this?” briefing session.
• Sync all of your families existing calendars into PAM, and PAM into your existing calendars (Google, Outlook, Apple).
• WhatsApp integration - flick any important messages to PAM, she’ll transform them into events and tasks for you.

Website: https://www.pamfamilymanager.com/

Ratings and reviews

This is a great app however the monthly subscription is too expensive especially for what you get. In the free version you are unable to share a calendar or color code events. I have moved to a simpler free app that allows me to share a calendar with my partner which is all I need.

what an amazing app! Pam has made my life so much easier as a busy mom of 3, being able to just speak to add to my calendar or to do list is a game changer! forwarding my newsletters straight to pam, it then pulls the info I need and adds it to my calendar! so good

Pam is made to be used by families. a way to track ongoing and upcoming plans on a user friendly calendar. The goal is clear but the processes by which accounts are "merged together" is over complicated, we had to do this via their customer support team The application needs work and a more efficient + user accessible way to merge your own calendar with your family's calendar 🤦‍♀️

What's new

- You can now use Notes without data/wifi
- Voice in Chat now works with the language your phone is set too.
- Small improvements to make life easier