Own Your Sex

In-app purchases
778 reviews
Content rating
Mature 17+
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About this app

For a lot of people, talking about or sharing our sexual interests can be intimidating or downright scary. We want everyone to be able to overcome those fears, to open up, and to feel comfortable talking to their partners.

The app:


On separate phones (or tablets), answer questions from multiple categories with your partner and view only the questions you both said 'yes' to.

And yes, we are LGBTQ friendly. No matter your gender or sexual preference, our app is for you!

Play (Random Match Game)

Randomly generate 'commands' from your pool of matches to help give you a push to try new things with your partner, rediscover things you forgot you enjoyed, or to simply spice up your sex life


Browse articles that cover sex tips, sexual wellness topics, and sex facts

Answer open ended questions and view each other's answers in order to discover even more about your partner and further open up the lines of communication. Share your answers with the community (anonymously) and read community answers to get ideas that you can implement in your own relationship!

Whether you don't know how to begin the conversation or whether you and your partner are seasoned freaks between the sheets, we hope that this app will help you discover and experience new and exciting things and ignite passion in your relationship by opening the lines of communication!

Both you and your partner can now challenge each other to complete tasks that you create or select from your questionnaire matches. Each completed challenge will earn you points, which you can redeem for rewards that your partner has created for you.


-Let your partner know what you want by sending them "Winks"! Now you can send one of your matches to your partner as an app notification as a fun way to flirt any time you want

-Improve intimacy in your relationship by discovering new sexual activities to enjoy with your partner and by making it easier to discuss your sexual desires!

-View your matches when both you and your partner have matched on at least one question. You no longer have to complete the entire questionnaire before viewing matches

-Add up to three partners and take individual questionnaires with each one. The questionnaires are completely separate and the matches aren't shared between them

-Use the random match game to have a fun, random night with your partner or use it to help open up the lines of communication

We generate a set number (you decide) of 'commands' from each category of questions with the idea being that you will do whatever the commands say

Our hope is that this will allow you to experience fantasies and desires you may have been too afraid to discuss or bring up to your partner in the past. Or perhaps there's nothing you and your partner haven't done, and you just want to mix things up a bit!

-Choose which matches to include in the random match game in case there are matches that you just don't want randomly selected, or matches that may not work for you in a random setting

-Keep track of activities you and your partner have experienced together

-There are over 250 total questions in multiple categories from foreplay to kink, with more questions (and categories) on the way

-Browse articles alone or with your partner to discover tips and advice on how to improve your sex life. If you're in a learning mood, you will have access to science and fact based articles related to all things sex!

-Send Winks from your pool of matches to send to your partner as a fun way to flirt anytime and let your partner know exactly what you want!

-Confess your desires to your partner to further open up the lines of communication and improve intimacy in your relationship

-Challenge your partner to perform various tasks to earn points. Exchange those points for rewards that you create
Updated on
Nov 12, 2020

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778 reviews
Lyn Redrick (Lyn noone)
October 20, 2022
It's opened up new areas to explore and the line of communication. Should be able to answer more questions without buying upgrade this early into it. Now we've upgraded and it's gotten a bit confusing like we are starting over?!?!?!? We upgraded but it's the same questions. Bad move
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Nathan “Magoo” Loiterton
September 21, 2021
The upgrade purchase price on the Google pay screen is different from the in app price.. Some of the issues the above, like making a profile to unlock other features need to b dry fixed as I already have a profile & hasn't marked this off as done.. Not sure if any more yet to. But only just started to use & the first one has put a holt to me purchasing the upgrade!!
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February 20, 2021
The initial thrill was great and it certainly gets to some taboo topics. Had it for a while now and it would be nice to see some new questions or features.. Also noticed Neither she nor I get notifications for challenges or winks we send to eachother.. That's disappointing
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What's new

Fixed bugs with Challenges. Challenges should load and be updated correctly. Time limits will be respected

Implemented Forgot Password functionality on the login screens