XOXO: Chat, Play, Make Friends

In-app purchases
5.44K reviews
Content rating
Mature 17+
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About this app



This inclusive dating app for open-minded people left behind the suffocating gender-age-sexuality-body type filters for a gamified experience of getting to know others through their personalities.

A social network and a game as much as a dating app, XOXO is about meeting not just who YOU thought you would like but who WE think you might like.

Look deep into your mind and heart through a quiz. Discover yourself through a cute virtual totem that helps people see you from new angles. Use our estimate of your mental age as a different way to describe yourself. Get to know people of all backgrounds, genders, sexualities, and appearances that you connect on another level with. Customize and take care of your totem. Become a part of the community in chats assembled by personality type. Play through our challenges, show off your achievements. Build new experiences at the intersection of romance, sex, friendship, and camaraderie.

We do not intend filtration settings for your feed by gender, sexuality, age, or otherwise, so you could meet more people that we think you might like.

A cute avatar suggested by our quiz represents your personality type, letting other people get to know you from new angles. Your totem’s health is fueled by your swiping, messaging, and liking activity on the app.

We ballpark your “mental age” as part of the quiz—don’t you think that could be an interesting description point?

There is no traditional button for rejecting people—as we could all do with a little bit less explicit negativity in our lives.

A track of individual tasks rewarded with XP gains and badges helps you familiarize yourself with both the community and the environment.

Our “totally scientific” onboarding quiz looks deep into your mind and heart so you could discover yourself and meet more people like you.

Spaces of acceptance and understanding for folks with similar temperaments and personalities.

XoXo’s Privacy Policy: https://www.xoxo-app.com/pp.html
XoXo’s Terms of Use: https://www.xoxo-app.com/terms.html
Updated on
Dec 16, 2022

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
No data shared with third parties
Learn more about how developers declare sharing
This app may collect these data types
Location, Personal info and 6 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

5.41K reviews
Catherine Goranson
April 10, 2022
The app is good in concept, to create connection between people free of filters. But there are some major flaws. One is that there is no way to unlike or un super-like someone if you tapped the button accidentally. Even worse than that, there are a number of young children on the app, and no way to indicate age on people's profile besides adding it to your bio. I want to like and use this app as a dating app (as i saw it advertised to be), but those two problems are extremely problematic.
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April 21, 2022
Hello! Thank you for your review. The app is 18+, and minors are not allowed to use the app, that's why we have the Moderation Team working 24/7 on verifying the profiles. Minor's security is our priority, so please do not worry. We are aways available at support@xoxo-app.com
alex d
August 14, 2021
I just got the app and it has great ideas, but it definitely has issues. 1) I only see the same 7 people when swiping. I understand it may be there are few people in the area, but its pretty bad. 2) I'm added to the group message for people with the same totem, but it won't let me send messages or anything. Considering how few people are talking, I would imagine others have the same issue. 3) the photo upload is messed up. It randomly rotates your image and crops it to where its unusable.
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Nena Pennington
June 27, 2022
It's a beautiful app, however, there is no way to filter sex or location. Not everyone is into everyone. Some people like one gender, some like 3, some like all, some like most, ext. So filtering would make it a bit easier for those with preferences. Also, the location issue, not everyone wants a long distance relationship. It's difficult to find those close to you without a filter. Not everyone has the funds to just get on a plane and visit someone. It'd be nice to choose a general location.
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What's new

Hey there, sweeties, how are you? Hope, y’all are doing well during these cold days! We don’t have much to tell you, besides some bug fixes that will make your experience with XOXO better. So it’s better you tell us what news do you have? How are spending your time? What movies you can’t wait to watch these months? Tell this all in a groupchat to those you know for a while and to newcomers, who've just entered with the new update. Take care of yourself and stay tuned. XOXO!