1 to 10 & Then is a conversation card game of deep questions for couples, friends, and family who want real talk instead of small talk. Rate how much a question describes you from 1 to 10, rate how you experience each other, then reveal the gap. That gap is where the real conversation starts.
Play it as a couples card game on date night, an icebreaker game at a party, or deep conversation cards for the family dinner table.
HOW IT WORKS
- Gather 2 to 6 people and pick a deck
- Score how much a prompt describes you, 1 to 10, then score how much it describes the other players
- Pass the phone, or play on separate phones over the internet
- Reveal the scores, notice the surprises, then talk it through
ONE PHONE OR SEVERAL
One phone is enough or you can each play on your own phone. No sign-up, no account, and no ads between questions. Want to play over the internet? Create or join a room and play across separate phones.
THREE DECKS
- Relationship: a couples game for partners, friends, and family
- Self: self reflection, self discovery, and how you show up
- Spiritual: beliefs, meaning, and the questions with no neat answers
A CONVERSATION GAME FOR EVERY MOMENT
- Date night questions for couples
- Deep conversation cards for friends
- Family conversation starters for the dinner table
- An icebreaker game for parties and game night
- Self reflection questions to explore with a partner or friend
- Relationship questions that go past "how was your day"
WHY PEOPLE LIKE IT
- Depth without pressure. The middle score of 5 is disabled on purpose, so there is no lazy answer.
- Tips unpack a question whenever you want them.
- Save your favorites and suggest your own questions.
- Available in 7 languages: English, Dutch, French, Latin American Spanish, Simplified Chinese, Italian, and Brazilian Portuguese.
WHO IT IS FOR
Couples who want better conversation. Friends who want deeper talk. Families who want a real dinner-table game. Partners who have run out of new questions. Anyone who treats self discovery and personal growth as a practice, not a quick quiz.
Try the starter cards free. Optional in-app purchases unlock the full decks. Core play never needs an account.
A party game, a couples game, and a conversation starters app in one - made for people who would rather talk about something that matters.
Download 1 to 10 & Then and start a conversation worth having.
Deep conversation card game for couples, friends & family. No small talk.