HER Lesbian, bi & queer dating

Contains adsIn-app purchases
15.6K reviews
Content rating
Mature 17+
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About this app

HER LGBTQ+ Dating & Community

Meet & chat with queer women, trans, nonbinary, and gender non-conforming people

🏳️‍🌈 Join 10 million+ queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming folkx on HER - the world's most loved LGBTQ+ dating & community app. Your people are here. 🏳️‍🌈

HER is built by queers for queers. We're proud to provide a safe dating and chat space for the LGBTQIA2S+ community to form meaningful relationships, hookup, and hang out.

Download HER and let us welcome you to a supportive and inclusive place filled with people like you.

All of our core features are completely free.
❤️ Safe Queer Dating – match and chat with people from your neighborhood and all over the world.
🤝 Community – hang out with others who have similar values, interests, or hobbies by joining as many of our 30+ communities as you'd like!
🕶️ Stand Out – add pronouns, pride pins, gender & sexual identities, fun facts, Spotify go-to's, and more to your profile. Be authentically you.

Unlock more features with premium!
🤫 Incognito mode – no one can see you unless you like them first
🧐 Additional search filters – find exactly who you're looking for.
👋 Online now – send a real-time hello to someone online!
🚫 Ad-free experience – we won't interrupt your groove.

See you around!
Instagram & TikTok - @hersocialapp

Updated on
4 Jul 2022

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region and age The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
This app may share these data types with third parties
Location, Personal info and 3 others
This app may collect these data types
Location, Personal info and 6 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted
15.6K reviews
Emma Zander
1 July 2022
This app is really good for finding fellow LGBTQ+ friends and partners, but that's where my praise ends. The A.I. matching system is great and being able to verify real people is a really good feature. Besides that, the app is terrible to use. Weird menus, awful layouts, people just disappearing from your requests and matched lists, not sending messages/ sending multiple of the same messages. You're better off matching with people and then taking the messaging straight to another platform.
16 people found this review helpful
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6 July 2022
Thanks for sharing your feedback! Please feel free to email us at support@weareher.com to let us know what we can improve to create a better experience for you. Have an amazing day.
Aashari Johnson
30 June 2022
It's easy to use, the limited matches isn't so great but you can always send a friend request that let's you add ppl you like so you can still talk as long as they accept your request. I would sign up for premium if it wasn't so high for the monthly cost. I don't want to sign up for a year bc I don't know how long I'll need it. So far, so good though! Great diversity so if you're queer, this app is here!! No many annoying ads either!
6 people found this review helpful
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30 June 2022
Thanks for the feedback and I'm sorry to hear that you're frustrated with the experience. We try to keep all important features free - swiping, making & receiving likes, Communities, and messaging. We are a small team with limited resources, but we hope you get value and are able to meet someone through all our free features.
9 June 2022
I wish I could vote higher, but I truly think you should be able to filter out certain sexualities or genders for free. Lesbians shouldn't be seeing transmascs and visa versa. To see if filtering and such is actually worth it, I signed up for the gold premium seven day trial. But it charged me the full 14.99 monthly payment for the premium, when it said it was a *trial.* You know, for trying something out before you pay for it, like on any other app. Besides this, it's a great app.
114 people found this review helpful
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9 June 2022
Thanks for sharing your honest feedback. If you have any suggestions on how we could better the experience of the app for its users, please send us a message at support@weareher.com

What's new

To improve your experience, we update the app regularly. This update contains both performance enhancements and new features!