HER Lesbian, bi & queer dating

Contains adsIn-app purchases
21.9T reviews
Content rating
Mature 17+
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About this app

HER LGBTQ+ Dating & Community

Meet & chat with queer women, trans, nonbinary, and gender non-conforming people

🏳️‍🌈 Join 10 million+ queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming folkx on HER - the world's most loved LGBTQ+ dating & community app. Your people are here. 🏳️‍🌈

HER is built by queers for queers. We're proud to provide a safe dating and chat space for the LGBTQIA2S+ community to form meaningful relationships, hookup, and hang out.

Download HER and let us welcome you to a supportive and inclusive place filled with people like you.

All of our core features are completely free.
❤️ Safe Queer Dating – match and chat with people from your neighborhood and all over the world.
🤝 Community – hang out with others who have similar values, interests, or hobbies by joining as many of our 30+ communities as you'd like!
🕶️ Stand Out – add pronouns, pride pins, gender & sexual identities, fun facts, Spotify go-to's, and more to your profile. Be authentically you.

Unlock more features with premium!
🤫 Incognito mode – no one can see you unless you like them first
🧐 Additional search filters – find exactly who you're looking for.
👋 Online now – send a real-time hello to someone online!
🚫 Ad-free experience – we won't interrupt your groove.

See you around!

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Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region and age The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
This app may share these data types with third parties
Location, Personal info and 3 others
This app may collect these data types
Location, Personal info and 6 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted
21.9T reviews
25 November 2022
It overall is a good app, I am fairly new. I think the community functions are unique and really cool, they seem like a good way to make general connections (which I need lol). Don't love the ads and getting upsold for premium all the time, and the degree to which you can filter the people it shows you is basically so small it's irrelevant.
7 people found this review helpful
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28 November 2022
Thanks for the feedback, we appreciate hearing your experience with the app. If you have any suggestions on how we can enhance your experience, please send us a note at support@weareher.com
Brittany Huls
18 November 2022
Notifications don't work - tried everything (S22 Ultra), you have to subscribe to it if you want to get any real functionality from it, the swiping function glitches a lot and so you see the same people over and over, so many fake accounts, and can't even rearrange photos. I really want an app like this to work but it just doesn't, not many good alternatives for queer people either.
20 people found this review helpful
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22 November 2022
Oh no! We sincerely apologize for the troubles you've had with the app. We'd be happy to take a look into this for you, please contact us at support@weareher.com. Thank you.
Roxsheida “Rocky”
11 November 2022
The app (free version) isn't as free-flowing as expected. Dating apps have become pricy and pretty much leave you on the free version. I can't justify paying that much a week/month/year to potentially try and meet someone. Try offering a real trial version. I also don't like that they make you pay to see the "likes" because previous sites have used that as an opportunity to scam. Paying to see computer-generated suggestions isn't cool. An affordable option would probably sell more.
2 people found this review helpful
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15 November 2022
Thanks for the feedback and I'm sorry to hear that you're frustrated with the experience. We try to keep all important features free - swiping, making & receiving likes, Communities and messaging. We are a small team with limited resources, but we hope you get value and are able to meet someone through all our free features.

What's new

To improve your experience, we update the app regularly. This update contains both performance enhancements and new features!