HER Lesbian, bi & queer dating

Contains adsIn-app purchases
25.1K reviews
Content rating
Mature 17+
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About this app

HER LGBTQ+ Dating & Community

Meet & chat with queer women, trans, nonbinary, and gender non-conforming people

🏳️‍🌈 Join 10 million+ queer women, lesbian, bi, nonbinary, trans, and gender nonconforming folkx on HER - the world's most loved LGBTQ+ dating & community app. Your people are here. 🏳️‍🌈

HER is built by queers for queers. We're proud to provide a safe dating and chat space for the LGBTQIA2S+ community to form meaningful relationships, hookup, and hang out.

Download HER and let us welcome you to a supportive and inclusive place filled with people like you.

All of our core features are completely free.
❤️ Safe Queer Dating – match and chat with people from your neighborhood and all over the world.
🤝 Community – hang out with others who have similar values, interests, or hobbies by joining as many of our 30+ communities as you'd like!
🕶️ Stand Out – add pronouns, pride pins, gender & sexual identities, fun facts, Spotify go-to's, and more to your profile. Be authentically you.

Unlock more features with premium!
🤫 Incognito mode – no one can see you unless you like them first
🧐 Additional search filters – find exactly who you're looking for.
👋 Online now – send a real-time hello to someone online!
🚫 Ad-free experience – we won't interrupt your groove.

See you around!

Updated on
Mar 28, 2023

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
This app may share these data types with third parties
Location, Personal info and 3 others
This app may collect these data types
Location, Personal info and 6 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted
25.1K reviews
Jon Sims
March 22, 2023
As a trans man I have been struggling to find a good dating platform that embraces trans users, and I heard that this one might be good. Skeptical just from a first impression of being a women centric app, I gave it a try anyway, and I dunno. The apps interface seems to aim to create a gender inclusive space by having fields to express your identity in your profile, but I can't help but feel I and most others who are on the more masculine end of things are still alienated.
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March 22, 2023
Thanks for the feedback, we appreciate hearing your experience with the app. If you have any suggestions on how we can enhance your experience, please send us a note at support@weareher.com
tina c
March 1, 2023
Actually works for non-members! Not a fan of dating apps, but this one actually let's people connect without paying. It's also not too expensive for a one month membership, to test it out. I've connected with several decent women in the few days since installing. Nice chat feature, easy to use interface... This one is the most promising I've found, especially for the poor people like me. Thank you HER. ❤️
89 people found this review helpful
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Alice Dusk
February 7, 2023
This app is basically useless. Literally every single aspect is locked behind a heavy paywall. Extremely limited swipes, incredibly long recharge times and inability to see liked, nearby or even online profiles means you'll be stuck and run out of things to do within only a minute or two; and then you'll have to wait an entire day before able to interact with anything again. Also rampant with bots and scammers. I regret downloading it and do not advise anyone else to do so either.
125 people found this review helpful
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What's new

To improve your experience, we update the app regularly. This update contains both performance enhancements and new features!