HER Lesbian, bi & queer dating

Contains adsIn-app purchases
30.8K reviews
Content rating
Mature 17+
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About this app

Join over 13 million+ lesbian, bisexual, trans, and queer people on HER - the world's most loved dating app & platform for the LGBTQIA+ community. We believe that everyone has the right to love and be loved, find friends, form meaningful relationships in the LGBTQIA+ community.

HER started as a lesbian dating app built by and for lesbian & queer womxn. We evolved into an LGBTQIA+ platform for all colors of the rainbow. We are proud to say that now we are more than the 'swipe right' lesbian dating app. We want to be the best LGBTQ platform, and we are working hard to make it happen.

❤️ Dating – Experience the best online lesbian dating & meet queer folks from all over the world.
❤️ LGBTQ+ News Feed – Share the most urgent and fantastic news about the LGBTIQ+ community.
❤️ Communities – Join smaller community group chats based on interests or hobbies.
❤️ Parties – the HER team hosts parties in 15 cities worldwide (from London to LA). Find out when the next one is near you and get exclusive discounts on tickets.

At its heart, HER is a free dating app for lesbians and LGBTQ+ people. All the app's core features are entirely free, so finding your person or your community is accessible for everyone. With the free app version, you can add friends, view profiles, start chats, view events, and join communities.

There's also paid subscription offering even more great features.
– Ad-free experience
– See who's online in real-time
– Additional search filters
– Incognito mode
– And many more!

Download HER to join a community of people who believe in LGBTQ+ equality and empowerment. Whether you're here for a girlfriend or partner, someone for a great date, or your next friendship group, the HER community is a welcoming and supportive one.

HER is a place where you can be authentical, whether you're lesbian, bi, queer, non-binary, a transgender woman, a transgender man, or gender non-conforming. It's your safe harbor where everyone can be their true self.

Contrary to what you might think, HER is a safe and inclusive place to date and chat for all queer people. While it started as a lesbian dating app, it has evolved into a platform for LGBTQIA+ people. Cis women, trans women, trans men, non-binary people, and gender non-conforming people are all welcome. Share your story, discover local events, join the community and live your best life!

HER is somewhere that all the other colors of the rainbow can unite.

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Updated on
Nov 20, 2023

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
This app may share these data types with third parties
Personal info, Financial info and 2 others
This app may collect these data types
Location, Personal info and 6 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

30.3K reviews
Finnley Harrison
September 5, 2023
Decent platform and workability thus the two stars, but this app is loaded with fake accounts, scammers, and bots. I've barely gotten any interaction that hasn't been a fake account with the free features. The price to unlock the features that would make it easier to navigate is outrageous for an app with so many issues to still fix. Offering a shorter time subscription that's much cheaper just to see if it is worth the cost would be better than what's offered currently, in my opinion.
128 people found this review helpful
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September 6, 2023
I'm sorry to hear this was your experience on the app. We are in the process of updating our flagging system to improve scammer detection so you have confidence that the person you are talking to is real. Please report any suspicious profiles as you see them and our team will check them out as soon as possible.
Amanda D
September 23, 2023
I love the concept, but the execution is questionable. I tried it free and wasn't getting matches I wanted, so I paid the monthly (gold) and was able to turn on some filters. For $15/month I should get more than a limited number of swipes, know who is matching before I match, and have my filters work both ways. Why would you let people swipe if we don't match!? Lastly, no hate (truly), but there seem to be a lot of people offering massage services - there are other apps for that!
51 people found this review helpful
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September 26, 2023
Thanks for the feedback, we appreciate hearing your experience with the app. If you have any suggestions on how we can enhance your experience, please send us a note at support@weareher.com
EG Carswell
July 30, 2023
It takes way too long to get to swipe again if you don't pay for gold or premium options. Also, people's locations are often inaccurate--locations should be shared instead of setting one's own, because swiping on someone you think is local only to find they're across the country creates issues. Today the app has been freezing a lot, too many technical issues.
98 people found this review helpful
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August 2, 2023
So sorry to hear that this is your experience with the app. With every new app version, we are introducing new features and improving existing ones. We are sure that your feedback will only help us improve further.

What's new

To improve your experience, we update the app regularly. This update contains both performance enhancements and new features!