In I Was Loved: 10 Statements I Hope My Child Can Say About Their Childhood, Dr. Roderick Logan provides a thoughtful guide for parents seeking to nurture a close, loving, and flourishing family. The book's ten statements serve as guiding principles that lead to children in their adult years reflecting and saying, I felt safe and secure, I was encouraged to explore and learn, I was listened to, and my feelings were respected.
I Was Loved directly responds to the question posed to leaders of the ACEs movement: How can we prevent adverse childhood experiences? Furthermore, it gives parents a starting point for raising resilient children into thriving adults. This insightful and heartfelt book is a valuable resource, offering practical advice and emotional support to parents striving to create a nurturing environment for their children.
Drawing from his deep understanding of salutogenics, Dr. Logan guides parents in fostering a nurturing environment that promotes resilience and guards against adverse childhood experiences. He underscores that parental love is not just a feeling but a series of intentional actions that shape a child's self-perception and worldview. His message is clear: well-loved children are likelier to grow into emotionally healthy adults. This book is a comforting companion, offering parents profound emotional support and understanding in their child-rearing journey, helping them feel less alone and more understood.
The book is divided into ten chapters, each focusing on a statement that encapsulates a vital aspect of a loving, supported childhood. Each chapter provides actionable advice backed by research and real-life examples, making it an invaluable tool for parents. Whether you are a new parent or one seasoned in experience, I Was Loved can guide you toward creating a loving and supportive environment for your child.