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  .父母必讀,好兒子教養聖經!
  .No.1第一本暢銷全球的男孩教養專書!
  .百萬暢銷教養作家、20年16國家庭諮詢經驗
  .綜合荷爾蒙研究+大腦攝影等科學數據+完全解答男孩大小事

  男孩天生就和女孩不同,先天條件差、起跑點較晚、父母教養需求比重也不同……

  .兒子總是比同齡女孩更沒有安全感嗎?別讓他總是處在焦慮狀態,帶著「悲傷大腦」成長,出現「傷心 / 憤怒症候群」……

  .總是莫名生病、尿床、偷竊或注意力不集中嗎?注意力缺失症有時=父母缺失症

  .你知道為什麼男孩總是好動、愛打架、難控制、愛欺侮女生?千萬別怪孩子,因為他們天生如此,這都是「睪固酮」惹的禍,且男孩肌肉比女孩多30%、血球數目也多於女孩……

  每對父母心中,都想要有一個體貼、聰明、勇敢的小男孩。但研究顯示:父母擁抱女兒、和女兒說話的頻率遠超過兒子;面對調皮、難管教的男孩,大人總更為嚴厲、體罰多於勸導?原本先天條件就劣於女孩的男孩,父母、師長教養習慣又不知不覺偏愛乖巧的女孩,那麼希望男孩有好表現實在是強人所難……

  到底該怎麼教出快樂、富有愛心且才華洋溢的好兒子呢?

  澳洲最著名的家庭諮詢師、教養專家史提夫,以二十多年、巡迴十六國的家庭諮詢經驗,佐以荷爾蒙研究、大腦攝影等科學數據,搭配幽默親切的行文、真實案例,讓父母預先了解男孩特質、教養重點:

  1.正視男女孩先天條件不公平:從荷爾蒙分泌週期、大腦結構……,檢視男孩從嬰兒時期、正在上學的男孩,以及青少年至成人的外在行為、心理上的階段性變化。

  2.矯正男女孩後天教養方式與社會期待的不公平:歸納母親、父親、其他親友師長教養男孩上的傳統錯誤,並提供具體且全方位的建議與做法。

  3.完全解答教養兒子會面臨的大小問題:例如,常常跑來跑去、製造噪音的根本原因?兒子常握住陰莖來忍住小便有害嗎?該怎麼讓男孩的左右腦更加平衡發展(自閉症、失調症男孩比女孩多)?如何將愛競爭的心理漸漸發展出「適可而止」的自制力,再轉化成負責任的態度?兒子惡劣舉止只是愚蠢的「狐群狗黨」的愚蠢現象,並不是存心使壞?兒子喜歡裝扮成女孩,他以後會變成同性戀嗎?又該怎麼處理?「侵略性」和「性侵略」只有一線之隔,該怎麼跟兒子談性?……

本書特色

  1.幫助家長、老師、社會認識男孩與女孩的差異。
  2.幫助男孩成為快樂、身心均衡的好男人。
  3.扭轉對男孩看法的突破性好書。
  4.隨書附贈「好兒子成長MEMO表」

名人推薦

  盧蘇偉(親子潛能整合專家)
  蘇明進(POWER老師)
  彭菊仙(親子教養作家)

Steve Biddulph’s Raising Boys was a global phenomenon. The first book in a generation to look at boys’ specific needs, parents loved its clarity and warm insights into their sons’ inner world. But today, things have changed. It’s girls that are in trouble.

There has been a sudden and universal deterioration in girls’ mental health, starting in primary school and devastating the teen years.

Steve Biddulph’s Raising Girls is both a guidebook and a call-to-arms for parents. The five key stages of girlhood are laid out so that you know exactly what matters at which age, and how to build strength and connectedness into your daughter from infancy onwards.

Raising Girls is both fierce and tender in its mission to help girls more at every age. It’s a book for parents who love their daughters deeply, whether they are newborns, teenagers, young women – or anywhere in between.

Feeling secure, becoming an explorer, getting along with others, finding her soul, and becoming a woman – at last, there is a clear map of girls’ minds that accepts no limitations, narrow roles or selling-out of your daughter’s potential or uniqueness.

All the hazards are signposted – bullying, eating disorders, body image and depression, social media harms and helps – as are concrete and simple measures for both mums and dads to help prevent their daughters from becoming victims. Parenthood is restored to an exciting journey, not one worry after another, as it’s so often portrayed.

Steve talks to the world’s leading voices on girls’ needs and makes their ideas clear and simple, adding his own humour and experience through stories that you will never forget. Even the illustrations, by Kimio Kubo, provide unique and moving glimpses into the inner lives of girls.

Along with his fellow psychologists worldwide, Steve is angry at the exploitation and harm being done to girls today. With Raising Girls he strives to spark a movement to end the trashing of girlhood; equipping parents to deal with the modern world, and getting the media off the backs of our daughters.

Raising Girls is powerful, practical and positive. Your heart, head and hands will be strengthened by its message.

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