improve our lives ... and i think the main trick we should have in mind
is just ... try to not control anything at all.
Only play on the stage of our own lives ... and even being surrounded
by so, so many energy forces ... we should embrace all of them ... no
matter if they are positive and negative.
We should somehow dance with those energies and enjoy the dance
itself, which actually means accept everything happens, even if it
happens for a reason difficult to be understood now.
You see, we have lots of options in life, like live in society and interact
with it, no matter what that means ... live in society, but practice the
solitude and avoid the interaction ... but also leave this world, go in a
place where you can’t find anyone around and be just you with your
inner self.
For most of us, what really happens ... we live inside the society and
even if we don’t want to interact with it ... we are somehow forced to
do it ... to better understand the life lessons we have to learn during
this life time.
Trying to see this art of playing around with energies ... becomes a
must and we can’t survive without it.
And even if we don’t want to become artists .... it’s the only art the
Universe is asking us to study.
But ... connecting to people becomes many times really annoying.
Indeed ... there will be times when the connection will give us joy, like
in a love story or the relations we have with good friends or our
children ... but there will be many, many occasions when the
connections will just ... hurt us.
So ... do we have a choice to decide when we should stop
interacting?!
Well ... being an art ... you will actually understand that in the
process, using some tips and tricks that i will write about ... we can
connect, disconnect and then re connect anytime we want.
We should not be afraid of any kind of energy ... no matter if it is
positive or negative energy ... cause all around us is just a reflection
of our own souls.
You just can’t be afraid of ... you.
If we see beautiful things, events and situations in our present
moment ... it means we are in good spiritual shape ... on the right
frequency.
If we somehow totally dislike and disagree everything around us ... it
means ... something is wrong inside of the inner soul.
I’ve read lots of books over the years and i was also meditating a lot
over the meaning of life ... and all i can say today is that the trick for
a beautiful life is just embrace reality, no matter how that is.
And if you want to change something ... try to change in the inner
world ... not the outside world.
You will never be able to change the reflection from the mirror ... if
you don’t change what is in front of the mirror.
The art of dancing with the energies from our lives ... can be learnt
just as you learn the art of dancing.
Connect with the partner ... and the music ... and synchronize all the
movements ... for a beautiful dance.
I’ve started to write my first book at 16 … but then … realizing i could not publish it … i’ve abandoned the idea of being a … writer.
20 years later … i’ve started to write again … believing i will finally succeed … but i’ve failed one more time … not getting the success i was chasing for.
Another 5 years later … i’ve started one more time to write … but this time … more as a therapy.
It’s what i’ve defined as … self therapy.
I was analyzing and defining lots of weird ideas … that were a lot related to me … and my own soul.
I totally forgot that i was chasing for success.
I was simple writing my thoughts … in essays … becoming this way … maybe not a writer …. but what many define as … an essayist.
This is not a poet … and not a writer.
Or maybe is kind of a poet that is incapable of writing poetry … but is still expressing his thoughts … into a similar way … as a poet.
And is not a writer … cause have not the ability to write for too long time … about the same subject.
But maybe i am not an essayist… either.
I am just an ordinary person … that could be better defined … as a thinker.
Analyzing … and defining my life … practicing this process called … self therapy … i started to understand life … and the way to better paths which i should follow.
And i’ve wrote … and wrote … and wrote … realizing one day that i’ve published tens of books …. not really understanding how the hell I’ve succeeded doing that.
Today i dare to recommend writing … as a therapy.
I could even say … it’s a simple way of understanding who we are … but also a process that could help us … heal our souls.
I personally continue to … write.
It’s in fact … a non ending story that … at least for myself … will probably continue for the rest of my life.
But over all … i am glad … i am doing it.
I continue my philosophical journey … not being able to define myself for clear as a writer or an essayist… but …
Well …. most probably… i am on a good path.
And … i would dare to recommend to everyone … all what i am doing today.