The cancer of love relationships: essays about duality

Adrian Gabriel Dumitru

Love Essays Book 1 · Adrian G Dumitru

About this ebook

There are many which cannot exist ... outside duality.

But i've also realised, even into my private life that actually ... love relationships are too complicated.

Someone told me, just after i've finished this book ..

"The better you know a person, the closer you are to a separation from him.

Knowledge detaches one being from another and cancels the grains of mystery that are in any existence no matter how flat/linear it may be.

I think we resist knowing the other for a short time because after that period, his/her presence becomes fatigue and irritation."

Maybe i had to hear this, before i've started the book, but i guess is never too late to find out the secrets beyond a beautiful love story.

The term "cancer" ... is just a metaphor and i believe it can easily reflect the meaning of this book.

Defining the undefined.

And ... is funny cause the final conclusion ... for most of us is that ... it's all a dilemma.

Experiencing many times an emotional balance in continuous form and ending as ... a nightmare.

But ... still chasing to continue.

Not being able to simple disconnect and stay away ... of duality.

Ratings and reviews

This book challenges the illusions we often hold about love. It's not an easy read emotionally, but it's necessary. Dumitru's honesty and lyrical style make this a standout book on emotional awareness

In this book, Dumitru offers an honest reflection on the challenges that love can present. His essays delve into the complexities of relationships, encouraging readers to confront the difficult aspects of love with openness and understanding.

This book brilliantly explores how love can turn into something harmful when boundaries, respect, and self-worth are lost. Dumitru's writing is poetic, yet incredibly sharp. A must-read for anyone who's ever been hurt by love

About the author

I've started to write my first book at 16 ... but then ... realizing i could not publish it ... i've abandoned the idea of being a ... writer.

20 years later ... i've started to write again ... believing i will finally succeed ... but i've failed one more time ... not getting the success i was chasing for.

Another 5 years later ... i've started one more time to write ... but this time ... more as a therapy.

It's what i've defined as ... self therapy.

I was analyzing and defining lots of weird ideas ... that were a lot related to me ... and my own soul.

I totally forgot that i was chasing for success.

I was simple writing my thoughts ... in essays ... becoming this way ... maybe not a writer .... but what many define as ... an essayist.

This is not a poet ... and not a writer.

Or maybe is kind of a poet that is incapable of writing poetry ... but is still expressing his thoughts ... into a similar way ... as a poet.

And is not a writer ... cause have not the ability to write for too long time ... about the same subject.

But maybe i am not an essayist... either.

I am just an ordinary person ... that could be better defined ... as a thinker.

Analyzing ... and defining my life ... practicing this process called ... self therapy ... i started to understand life ... and the way to better paths which i should follow.

And i've wrote ... and wrote ... and wrote ... realizing one day that i've published tens of books .... not really understanding how the hell I've succeeded doing that.

Today i dare to recommend writing ... as a therapy.

I could even say ... it's a simple way of understanding who we are ... but also a process that could help us ... heal our souls.

I personally continue to ... write.

It's in fact ... a non ending story that ... at least for myself ... will probably continue for the rest of my life.

But over all ... i am glad ... i am doing it.

I continue my philosophical journey ... not being able to define myself for clear as a writer or an essayist... but ...

Well .... most probably... i am on a good path.

And ... i would dare to recommend to everyone ... all what i am doing today.