Bdsm Basics for Submissives: Dealing With the Mental and Emotional Side of Submission

Michelle Fegatofi

Sep 2014 · BDSM Unveiled

About this ebook

 Over the years, I have found a lot of helpless and sometimes clueless submissives that were mentally and emotionally abused by dominants. They each felt like they deserved anything they got and never even questioned the dominants about their behavior. One of the hardest things to learn as a new submissive in the world of BDSM is how to navigate and deal with the whirlwind of mental and emotional stress that can come from being in a D/s or M/s relationship. Many people believe they are not allowed to feel any bad feelings, think bad or wrong thoughts, and always have to be a happy submissive. As humans, we all have to deal with negative feelings and thoughts from time to time, even though we may be submissives. This guide is a tool that will help you understand, analyze, and deal with different types of emotions and mental stresses associated with being a submissive.

Ratings and reviews

Perfect gift for my Sub, made her read it before committing to anything.

Need to be a good slave even if you are not happy. This book helps.

She just brought the true insight of this world, along with the misconceptions.

About the author

 Michelle Fegatofi has been in and around the BDSM Lifestyle for over twenty years as a submissive slave. She mentors and advises new people as well as writes educational books and blogs on different subjects from a submissive point of view. She shares her own life, incites, and experiences as a real life 24/7 slave in hopes of inspiring others. Michelle currently resides in Italy with the love of her life and Master, Padrone Marco, two spoiled Chihuahuas, and a very complex parrot.