In the labyrinth of love, every one of us has his or her own inner map. Psychologists Goldbart and Wallin lead us along the metaphorical superhighways on the map of love by charting six easily grasped skills—the six capacities of love—that are all necessary to a long-term, stable love relationship: the capacities for erotic involvement, for merging, for idealization, for integration, for "refinding," and for self-transcendence. The authors demonstrate in a very practical, hands-on way how individuals and couples can use these capacities to work on breaking down their usual defenses and grow toward a deeper understanding and connection.
In defending ourselves against disappointment in love, we frequently—and often unknowingly—throw up obstacles, create roadblocks, and take detours around these six capacities. We think such detours will take us where we want to go in a relationship, but too often they do not. Goldbart and Wallin's sophisticated but accessible approach—using case studies and practical pointers throughout—based on solid psycho-analytic theory while creating a completely new model for love relationships that also makes intuitive sense.
Mapping the Terrain of the Heart offers a comprehensive psychology of love that maps out the paths to a successful relationship and shows how both individuals and couples can progress toward that ever-elusive goal of lasting and passionate love.
The concept of Alpha Female has been widely applied in magazines, websites, television, advertisements and books to misinform women regarding the ideal behavior they should have. However, the same doesn't happen to the description of Alpha Male, which finds social recognition and consent among experts.
An Alpha Male is often associated with masculinity, confidence and popularity, while the Alpha Female is commonly interpreted as a bitch, feminist, hooker or lesbian.
The discrimination of independent women pursuing their dreams, distorts the understanding of what a woman should be, appear or do, leading to confusion about what men really want. And, while the Publishing, Movie and Marketing Industries profit from the problem with cosmetics and romantic novels, women suffer from the pressure received from peers, relatives and relationships.
Taking this reality into account, a research was conducted in order to understand why women aren't happy and which believes lead to such outcome. At the same time, results were compared with those of women that get more from life and are able to obtain the relationships they always wanted.
An analysis of both situations allows a clear observation of which qualities and behaviors a woman should have, leading to the organization of the most important, based on the success of those that have applied this knowledge to change their life and conquer their dreams.
Among many social myths, the following chapters will allow an understanding of why some women, independently of their looks and personality, can easily marry the best men, while others aren't able to keep their own relationships for a long time.
Special skills are in demand, due to the amount of lies that have been brainwashing the female brain for the past decades. And, although books and magazines about relationships and seduction are easily found, nearly none presents a realistic and practical definition of Alpha Female.
Reality shows that a princess doesn't live happily ever after without the right prince, she'll have competition on the way, he won't choose the best woman and, if she can't actively pursue him, will end up with a frog, which may in the end cheat with somebody else.
Women tend to surpass men in numbers in many social circles, meaning that they risk more if not being competitive. “Life’s a Bitch; you’ve got to go out and kick ass” (Maya Angelou).
Destined to the most determined and smartest women, this book shows how to study men, understand their behaviors and select the best. It's an opportunity to rebuild character, increase self-esteem, gain responsibility and expand in wisdom about relationships.
The choice in agreeing with what this books provides implies the acceptance of the right to chase men and refuse the consequences of not doing so, such as waiting forever for the best to fall from the sky.
“A woman is like a tea bag; you can’t tell how strong she is until you put her on hot water” (Eleanor Roosevelt).
This volume is designed by and for an academic audience. It addresses the dating and mating complexities of the population under study by combining autoethnographic accounts with empirical research and theoretical concepts. As one of the few works to address the intricate interpersonal dynamics surrounding African-American women in the professorate from a scholarly perspective, Eletra S. Gilchrist's Experiences of Single African-American Women Professors: With this Ph.D., I Thee Wed seeks to not only dispel myths and stereotypes, but serve as an instructional tool for other professor hopefuls.
A one-of-a-kind work, The Self-Help Book is the ultimate spiritual,
personal development, and personal growth guide to finding your true self. It
is a unique book of secrets that gives simple steps to help achieve the things
we hope for by simply changing the way we think. This work provides many of the
secrets that can help one lead a life filled with the many things that we
aspire to achieve by addressing areas such as love, happiness, overall
well-being, success, confidence, and much more.
In The Self-Help Book,
B.J. Jerremy, author of several best-selling self-help books for women, men and teenagers, speaks of the “power of self.” He explains that everyone has the power to unlock the secrets of true self-love. He also addresses all aspects of life by
asking the question: How can we help ourselves to lead better lives? This work
explains that regardless of our current state, it is possible to find the
things we think are elusive simply by knowing ourselves on a much deeper level
– a greater self-knowledge and consciousness. Thus, we are in a better position
to help ourselves and achieve the great potentials we all have. Chapters and topics
of discussion include: A New Beginning, Finding Your Purpose, How to Love
Yourself, The Secret of Success, Good vs. Evil, Awaken Your Confidence, How to Build Self-Esteem, How to Achieve True Happiness, Accepting and Trusting
Yourself, The Definition of Success, Achieving True Self-Love, The Standard of Beauty, and much more.
Enlightening, insightful, and empowering,
The Self-Help Book will ultimately
put you on the path to taking charge of your destiny, as it encompasses and
speaks of all the important areas of life that can help lead to a fruitful and
balanced existence. This work is for teenagers and adults. Simply, it is for
people of all ages because it contains inspirational words that can help
everyone. This work is bound to change the way you think about life. For all
who seek a guide for spiritual and personal growth, The Self-Help Book is truly a must-read.
The emotional suffering and joys that such experiences bring can't be erased from memory, so it's important to confront them and analyze personal believes wisely. Such exercise requires the understanding of the purpose of love and its positive outcomes. And, even though it may be interpreted differently by each person, it can be conceptualized and redefined according to experience.
The most common approach to love is the need to share a life together with another person, which allows us to label those we meet as willing or unwilling, while being aware of who we attract and reject. This said, relationships fail when the path shared diverges into more than one single direction. However, the one being rejected knows that he or she has failed in providing something necessary for the two paths to become unified. As an example, a woman that criticizes men, makes them feel rejected and unloved, decreasing their compassion towards her. And, this happens because there's a contradiction between sharing a common purpose while holding to divergent believes.
The problem with breakups and divorces is that nobody wants to confront the problem and tell the other what went wrong, but he or she, will naturally need to make his own assumptions and conclusions, in order to find peace in his or her mind. Affairs are the most common assumptions, but even this can be justified by an unhealthy relationship, either they exist or not.
There are unknown rules in love, which lead to all kinds of difficulties related to maintaining a healthy relationship, but, if known, could allow maximizing the success of existing ones as well.
We do know that betrayal, disappointment and deception always hurts us, especially when we least expect or when we suffer them from those we loved and trusted the most. And yet, everything is seen and predicted in the stars, in their and our karma, but also in simple principles that this book unveils.
If you would like to know who you can or can’t trust, which option can take you to a better future or worse life experience, but also why you are experiencing certain things at this moment, then you want to definitely read this book. It describes one of the oldest secrets about karma and fortunetelling. And it’s so simple to analyze that, after knowing about how the method works, you will never have to worry ever again, or feel anxiety, about future events. You’ll also know which options are best for you, or which person you want as a friend or lover.
Life always follows the same alchemical rules, which are explained by symbols and structures within the logic of our own planet. When we understand them and how they apply in the manifestations of the reality we experience, we can actually gain a higher conscience of self and more responsibility over our actions. And this is the attitude that will then allow much more success, as well as the courage to deal with failure more peacefully.
The opposites of good and evil, past and future, heart and mind, good and bad, success and failure, are continually in interaction, despite our personal will and efforts, and it’s for this reason that illusions trap us inside the deceptive idea that the material world and what we have represent things that remain permanent in time.
The only thing that is permanent is conscience, our love for spiritual awareness. Everything else transforms and tends to adapt according to our experiences and understanding, from good to better or worse, depending on our decisions.
A decision is never important by itself but in its relation to the outcome and the desire behind it, and that’s what this book intends to show by using very ancient religious principles.
This is a book about magic, even though it explains how we can create and observe it with logic, will and love.
Love is the food of our heart, mind and soul. Love is breath of our life. Without love our life is death or lifeless or meaningless or worthless. We can’t think or imagine anything without love.
It is only love which gives us new meaning of our life. It is only love which teaches us the purpose of our life.
Love is the foundation of every relationship. Without love no relationships ever survive in this world.
Love is the mother of everything in this world. Love is the only medicine which heals every wound of our life. We can state that love is the herb of our life.
Without love every creature will die in this world. Love is the only source of life in this entire world. Love is the life saving energy of every creature; love is the only power which combines and binds everything in one knot of togetherness. Love brings everything under one roof or in oneness.
Love is like air we breathe. Love is like water we drink. Love is like fire we get warm. Love is like earth where we live. Love is like the sky which is above us. Love is the element of our life.
Love your life.
Love your world.
Love your beloved ones.
Love your friends.
Love your neighbors.
Love every creature of this world.
Love is the only way to live in this world with happiness and peace.
It is only love which will change your life.
It is only love which will change your world.
Only love can change you.
Only love can change your life.
Only love can change your world.
CHANGE YOUR LIFE WITH THE SWEETNESS OF LOVE!
Love your life…..
Love this world…..
Highlights of the book:
1. Love is beautiful
2. Love is the mother of everything
3. A Divine Love
4. Relation of eternal love
5. Love blooms everywhere
6. Sow a seeds of love
7. Love is a part of your life
8. Love is a word of life
9. Power of Love
10. Love is like a Prayer
11. Love is like Music
12. Love is like a flower
13. A life without love is worthless
14. A True Love is immortal