Tend Task

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3.9
42 reviews
5K+
Downloads
Content rating
Everyone
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About this app

Tend Task: Share the Mental Load, Strengthen Your Relationship

Tend Task isn’t just another to-do list app — it’s a relationship-first tool built by certified relationship coaches to help couples share responsibilities, communicate better, and build lasting connection.

If you feel the weight of invisible household work or find yourself frustrated by unbalanced chores, Tend Task helps turn everyday tasks into opportunities for teamwork.

WHAT’S NEW:
• Harmony AI Relationship Coach – Get instant guidance on conflict resolution, communication, and relationship questions
• Expanded Topic Library – Explore more relationship topics organized by category
• Conversation Starters – Access expert-crafted prompts for meaningful partner discussions
• Improved Dashboard – Enjoy a cleaner, more intuitive experience with our redesigned layout
• Deeper Insights Section – Find curated articles and resources for common relationship challenges
• Performance Improvements – Experience faster load times and smoother app transitions

ABOUT HARMONY:
Harmony is trained on evidence-based techniques including the Gottman Method, ORSC, and conflict management strategies. Whether you’re navigating household responsibilities or working through disagreements, Harmony provides thoughtful, practical guidance when you need it most.

NEW TOPICS INCLUDE:
• Communication
• Household Organization
• Relationship Coaching
• Connection
• Sex and Intimacy
• Premarital Preparation
• Tools and Exercises
• Parenting
• Teamwork

Each topic includes conversation starters and expert advice to help you and your partner grow closer while managing real-world responsibilities.

ADDITIONAL UPDATES:
We’ve redesigned the dashboard to give you a clearer view of your relationship metrics and made it easier to navigate all of Tend Task’s features. The new Deeper Insights section offers curated content focused on modern relationship challenges like mental load management, parenting balance, and teamwork.

Tend Task is built on research that focuses on relationship equity and the challenges high-achieving couples face in modern partnerships. Our approach combines the Gottman Method, ORSC, and conflict management techniques to help you build a stronger partnership while efficiently managing your household.

Download Tend Task today and turn household management into partnership growth.
Because when responsibilities are shared, relationships thrive.
Updated on
Feb 10, 2026

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
This app may share these data types with third parties
Personal info
This app may collect these data types
Personal info, Photos and videos and 3 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

3.8
39 reviews
Marianne D
July 15, 2020
The app was quite good for a while, had some good functionalities including ability to add photo to journal entries, but will not open anymore. Update: They got in touch offering a couple suggestions. I had uninstalled and reinstalled the app and tried a couple things in settings. It still didn't work after doing that, but I recently tried clicking on the app again and it now opens and all seems to work. Not sure what the issue was, but seems resolved.
8 people found this review helpful
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Tend Task, Inc.
June 26, 2020
We're so sorry to hear that you're having trouble opening the app. Please try updating Tend to version 2.1.5 to see if that resolves your issue. If you continue to have problems after updating, please reach out to us at info@persistiny.com.
Erica Doucette
June 6, 2025
I like the idea of this app for sharing lists and tasks between my husband and I. Unfortunately you can't make a simple list for shopping and stuff like that. Everything has to be a task assigned to a specific person with a time frame. I just want to make a running shopping list so whichever one of us manages to get to the store next knows what we need. Making the option to make simple lists along with tasks would make this app so much more helpful.
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Tend Task, Inc.
June 19, 2025
Thanks for your excellent feedback. We agree that shared lists would enhance the experience. We'll add that onto our feature development roadmap. In the meantime, some other users have had good success with AnyList. Don't hesitate to reach out to hello@tendtask.com if you have more ideas and feedback. Thanks again!
Angel Fonseca-Valdez
March 6, 2021
This app was ok but never reminded me visit the app in order to remain on task even though I opted yes to notifications when given the option. Also, whenever I tried to check off a task from my to do list, it never worked. It would completely remove a task altogether or just not work or stall and delete other tasks I wasn't finished with. Pretty bummed cause they did have alot of specific catagories that would have been nice.
3 people found this review helpful
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Tend Task, Inc.
March 7, 2021
Thank you so much for taking the time to offer this valuable feedback and bring these issues to our attention. We've got our development team working to address these issues and make the app more user-friendly as we speak. In the meantime, you may find that toggling the reminders switch under the settings will improve your notification experience.

What’s new

New in Tend: Wedding Planning Just Got Equal

Planning a wedding shouldn't default to one partner doing everything. We've added a Wedding Planning category designed to make the invisible work visible—and help both of you share it.

Track tasks, split responsibilities, and build partnership patterns that last way beyond your wedding day.

Because the way you plan your wedding reveals how you'll build your marriage.

Learn more at www.tendtask.com

App support

About the developer
Tend Task, Inc.
hello@tendtask.com
1216 Del Oro Ave Santa Barbara, CA 93109 United States
+1 805-203-6564