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Ngakhulela edolobheni elincane laseSicily eliqhele ngamakhilomitha ambalwa e-Agrigento, ikhaya likaPirandello omkhulu, ophakathi kwababhali bami engibathandayo, nakuba ngangingumfundi owesabekayo.
Ngafika e-Rome ngo-1999 ukuze ngiqhubeke nezifundo zami ze-psychology, futhi ngemva kokuthandana naleli dolobha, nganquma ukuhlala futhi ngihlale khona unomphela (naphezu kwezinga lempilo elibi!).
Njengamanje ngisebenza njengesisebenzi sokuphatha futhi ngesikhathi sami esikhululekile ngizinikela ekubhaleni, intshiseko yami enkulu nokunakekela.Eqinisweni, ukubhala kuyangisiza ukuthi ngizikhulule ekucindezelekeni kwempilo futhi kunginika umfutho wokudala odambisa intukuthelo nokwesaba kwami.
Ngaqala ngokubhala izindaba ezimfishane ngigqugquzelwa yizindaba zempilo zangempela, ngisebenze njengomsizi wasekhaya kubantu abadala iminyaka eyi-11, angishodi neze izindaba!
Kwesinye isikhathi ngizizwa ngifana namathuna amakhulu, emsebenzini wami wangaphambili ngaphelezela abantu abaningi ekufeni kwabo futhi ngibhala ngabo, kanye nokukhipha ubuhlungu bokuhlukana, kubonakala kimi njengesenzo esidingekayo ukuze ngiqhubeke ngibenze baphile.
Ngangihlale ngicabanga ukuthi angithandi ukuhaya izinkondlo, kunalokho iminyaka embalwa ngibhala izinkondlo ezithukuthele, kuyindlela yami yokuveza ukungahambisani nendoda ehlomile eyodwa engizizwa ngingeyena. Kodwa ezibongweni zami kuhlale kubizelwa ukucabanga okujulile kanye nesibindi sokulwela ukuhlonishwa kwamalungelo abantu futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke inkululeko yomuntu.
Ngafika e-Rome ngo-1999 ukuze ngiqhubeke nezifundo zami ze-psychology, futhi ngemva kokuthandana naleli dolobha, nganquma ukuhlala futhi ngihlale khona unomphela (naphezu kwezinga lempilo elibi!).
Njengamanje ngisebenza njengesisebenzi sokuphatha futhi ngesikhathi sami esikhululekile ngizinikela ekubhaleni, intshiseko yami enkulu nokunakekela.Eqinisweni, ukubhala kuyangisiza ukuthi ngizikhulule ekucindezelekeni kwempilo futhi kunginika umfutho wokudala odambisa intukuthelo nokwesaba kwami.
Ngaqala ngokubhala izindaba ezimfishane ngigqugquzelwa yizindaba zempilo zangempela, ngisebenze njengomsizi wasekhaya kubantu abadala iminyaka eyi-11, angishodi neze izindaba!
Kwesinye isikhathi ngizizwa ngifana namathuna amakhulu, emsebenzini wami wangaphambili ngaphelezela abantu abaningi ekufeni kwabo futhi ngibhala ngabo, kanye nokukhipha ubuhlungu bokuhlukana, kubonakala kimi njengesenzo esidingekayo ukuze ngiqhubeke ngibenze baphile.
Ngangihlale ngicabanga ukuthi angithandi ukuhaya izinkondlo, kunalokho iminyaka embalwa ngibhala izinkondlo ezithukuthele, kuyindlela yami yokuveza ukungahambisani nendoda ehlomile eyodwa engizizwa ngingeyena. Kodwa ezibongweni zami kuhlale kubizelwa ukucabanga okujulile kanye nesibindi sokulwela ukuhlonishwa kwamalungelo abantu futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke inkululeko yomuntu.
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