When We First

In-app purchases
3.3
38 reviews
5K+
Downloads
Content rating
Mature 17+
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About this app

When We First: Look Beyond the Likes!
Tired of swiping endlessly with no real connection? Welcome to When We First, the first dating app that brings real human touch back into the world of online dating. Whether you’re busy with work or just ready to find something meaningful, we’ve created a revolutionary experience to help you meet genuine people with the help of real matchmakers.
What Makes Us Different?
At When We First, we believe that finding love is personal, so we built an app with real people in mind. With our exclusive Human Button, you can connect with real matchmakers and dating experts for:
• Personalized Profile Help & Setup: Struggling to make your profile stand out? We don’t just review profiles—we can set them up for you! Get help from experts who know exactly how to highlight your best traits and make you shine.
• Dating Coaching: Receive real-time dating advice from professionals who can guide you on everything from your first message to your first date.
• Guaranteed Dates: Looking for something real? With matchmaking services, we guarantee dates based on your preferences and personality.
How It Works
1. Create Your Profile: Share your interests, what you’re looking for, and let us know a little about you.
2. Click the Human Button: Need help? Our matchmakers are standing by to review or set up your profile, offer guidance, or work with you one-on-one in an offline environment to ensure you’re ready for meaningful connections.
3. Start Dating: See quality profiles prioritized by your relationship goals, and connect with real people who align with what you’re looking for.
4. Looking for Guaranteed Dates? Upgrade for VIP Access: Unlock premium services for deeper matchmaking, dating insights, and more exclusive date opportunities.
Why When We First?
• Real Matchmakers and Expert Algorithms: Our algorithm isn’t just based on random swipes; it’s designed by real dating experts with years of matchmaking experience to help you find genuine connections.
• More Insights, More Connections: Not sure how you’re doing online? We offer real-time dating insights, help you select your best photos, and point you in the right direction to improve your chances of making strong connections.
• A Personal Touch: Our team is here to guide you every step of the way. Whether you need help crafting that perfect first message or preparing for a big date, we’re just a click away with personalized advice.
Marketplace Access
All of our customers have access to our exclusive partner marketplace, where you can connect with professionals such as photographers, image consultants, wellness gurus, astrologers, and even our restaurant partners. These experts are here to help you look and feel your best throughout your dating journey. From professional photos to curated date spots and tailored wellness advice, our marketplace ensures you’re ready for every step.
VIP Membership
Ready to take things to the next level? Upgrade to our VIP membership and unlock premium features like:
• Introductions to Real-Life Matches: Get introduced to matches who align with your relationship goals and meet in real life.
• Exclusive Matchmaking Services: VIP members receive priority access to customized matchmaking services, including weekly coaching, and guaranteed dates.
Join the Movement!
When We First is more than just a dating app—it’s the first app built by a real matchmaking expert, blending cutting-edge technology with personalized human insight to create real connections. We’re not just another dating app; we’re reintroducing what it means to find love in a digital world with a touch of expertise and care.
Updated on
Nov 2, 2025

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
No data shared with third parties
Learn more about how developers declare sharing
This app may collect these data types
Personal info, Health and fitness and 2 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

3.2
37 reviews
Kevin Kroll
October 3, 2025
The app seems buggy in many menus. uploaded photos hangs, if I hit back it will let me choose but the image will be extremely low resolution despite the original quality. Some UI is not clear on usage. Profiles load slowly and it repeats profiles on occasion. I've submitted multiple reports to support but never gotten a reply, even just a confirmation.
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Vera Vanicek
June 20, 2025
App doesn't work. Asks me to upload a picture for verification, then when I click on "start video check" it exits out of that by itself & goes back to the previous screen. So I'm stuck in a loop unable to advance.
7 people found this review helpful
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Eric Levine
June 23, 2025
Requires to update to version 1.2.3, but the available version on Google play is 1.2.0, so can't move past the login screen
1 person found this review helpful
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What’s new

New Features & Improvements
Added Reschedule Option for coaching sessions.
Enhanced AI Responses for contextual instructions and service purchase links.
Added “Top 3–5 Desired Attributes” field for better matching insights.