Codependent Relationship-Guide

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Mayelana nalolu hlelo lokusebenza

Kuyisimo esingokomzwelo nokuziphatha esithinta ikhono lomuntu lokuba nobuhlobo obunempilo, obunelisayo ngokufanayo. Kuphinde kwaziwe ngokuthi “ukulutha kobudlelwano” ngoba abantu abanokusebenzisana ngokuvamile bakha noma balondoloze ubudlelwano obunohlangothi olulodwa, olulimazayo ngokomzwelo kanye/noma oluhlukumezayo.

Ukuziphatha okuncikene ndawonye kufundwa ngokubuka nokulingisa amanye amalungu omndeni abonisa lolu hlobo lokuziphatha.

Uyaqaphela ukuthi ubudlelwano bakho obuningi buhlangothi olulodwa noma bulimaza imizwa? Ingabe uzithola uzibandakanya nezinhlobo ezifanayo zobudlelwane obungenampilo

Uma uphendule ngokuthi “yebo” kuyo yomibili imibuzo engenhla, ungase ube nezici zobudlelwano obuncikene. Kuyini i-codependency futhi ikuvimbela kanjani ekwakheni ubudlelwano obunempilo?

Uma umlingani wakho eyeka ukubonisa isithakazelo kuwe noma engenandaba nokuba khona kwakho, kungase kusho ukuthi unobudlelwane obubi. Kwesinye isikhathi, omunye uphathina ubusa omunye ngokweqisa aze asebenzise udlame olungokomzimba. Ubuhlobo obunjalo bungabizwa nangokuthi ubuhlobo obubi. Sonke sifuna ukuzizwa sithandwa futhi siphephile ebudlelwaneni bethu, kodwa uma singasahluleki siphephile enkampanini yomunye nomunye, kungasho futhi ukuthi ubudlelwano buphenduke ubuthi noma abuzange bube buhle kangako kusukela ekuqaleni.

I-Codependency ayiyona imfanelo ezuzwe njengefa—ukuziphatha okufundiwe. Abantu abaningi bakhetha la maphethini ngokubuka noma ngokulingisa amalungu omndeni abonise ukuziphatha okufanayo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, la maphethini angenza kube nzima ukuba nobudlelwano obunempilo, obanelisayo nobulinganayo.

Uma uvame ukuzithola ubuza imibuzo efana nalena:

Kungani ubudlelwano bami buhlala bunohlangothi olulodwa?

Kungani ngizizwa ngikhathele, ngingabongwa, noma ngingathandwa ebudlelwaneni bami?

Kungani ngihlala ngikhetha ozakwethu abangatholakali ngokomzwelo noma abahlukumezayo?

🌱 Ozokufunda Ngaphakathi Kuhlelo Lokusebenza:

✔️ Yini i-Codependency? - Ukuqonda incazelo kanye nomlando wokulutha ubuhlobo

✔️ Izimpawu Nezimpawu - Khomba ubudlelwano obunohlangothi olulodwa, oluhlukumezayo, noma oluqeda amandla

✔️ Izimbangela Ze-Codependency - Ukuguquguquka komndeni kanye namaphethini ezingane ezincane kububumba kanjani ubudlelwano

✔️ Ubudlelwano obunobuthi - Bona okunamathiselwe okungenampilo, ukubusa, nokuntuleka kwenhlonipho

✔️ Inqubo Yokuphulukisa - Izinyathelo zokugqashula ekukhokhweni futhi uthole kabusha ukuzethemba kwakho

✔️ Ukwakha Ubudlelwano Obunempilo - Ungadala kanjani ubambiswano olufanayo, oluhloniphayo, noluphephile

🔑 Izici ezibalulekile:

📖 Ukufinyelela Ungaxhunyiwe Ku-inthanethi - Sebenzisa noma nini, noma kuphi ngaphandle kokuxhumeka kwe-inthanethi

🧠 Izincazelo Ezicacile - Imiqondo elula neqondakala kalula mayelana nokusebenzisana

❤️ Ukuzisiza ngokwakho - Amathiphu asebenzayo wokuphulukisa nokwakha ubudlelwano obuqinile

📱 Idizayini Elungele Umsebenzisi - Ukuzulazula okulula kokufunda okushelelayo

🔍 Sesha & Ibhukhimakhi - Thola ngokushesha futhi ulondoloze izihloko ezibalulekile

🌍 Ngokuphelele Mahhala - Akukho okubhaliselwe, akukho zindleko ezifihliwe

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