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"Yeka Ukukhathazeka Futhi Uqale Ukuphila" yincwadi yomlobi odumile waseMelika uDale Carnegie, eyanyatheliswa okokuqala ngo-1948. Le ncwadi ibhekwa njengenye yemisebenzi yakhe ebaluleke kakhulu emkhakheni wokuthuthukiswa komuntu siqu kanye nokugqugquzela.

Le ncwadi inikeza isethi yamathiphu namasu okunqoba ukukhathazeka nokucindezeleka ekuphileni kwansuku zonke, futhi wakhe indlela yokuphila ejabulisayo nephumelelayo. Encwadini, uCarnegie ukhuluma ngezihloko eziningi ezibalulekile ezifana nendlela yokubhekana nokucindezeleka nezinselele, indlela yokunqoba ukwesaba nokukhathazeka, nendlela yokubhekana nabantu ngokuphumelelayo nokwakha ubuhlobo obuhle.

Encwadini yakhe, uCarnegie usebenzisa izindaba eziningi zomuntu siqu kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwabantu abaphumelele ukunqoba ubunzima nokuzuza impumelelo ekuphileni kwabo. Le ncwadi ihlose ukuqondisa umfundi ekuguquleni ukucabanga okungalungile kanye namaphethini okuziphatha okungase kubangele ukukhathazeka nokucindezeleka, ngaleyo ndlela azuze ukuphila okujabulisayo nokwanelisayo.

"Yeka ukukhathazeka bese uqala ukuphila" iyithuluzi elibalulekile lawo wonke umuntu ofuna ukuthuthukisa izinga lempilo yakhe yomuntu siqu neyomsebenzi, futhi anqobe izithiyo abangase babhekane nazo endleleni eya empumelelweni nasenjabulweni.

UDale Carnegie (1888-1955) ungumbhali odumile waseMelika kanye nesikhulumi esikhuthazayo, owazalelwa epulazini eMissouri, e-USA. UCarnegie udume ngezincwadi zakhe nezinkulumo zakhe emkhakheni wokuzithuthukisa nokugqugquzela, futhi ungomunye wamaphayona kulo mkhakha. Izincwadi zakhe, ezihlanganisa ethi “How to Win Friends and Influence People” nethi “Stop Worrying and Start Living,” zithole ukuthandwa okukhulu. Imisebenzi yakhe ibonakala ngesitayela sakhe esilula, esicacile esisebenza ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Ezincwadini zakhe, uCarnegie ugxile ekuqondeni okujulile kobudlelwane babantu kanye nobuciko bokuxhumana okuphumelelayo, futhi inikeza iseluleko esisebenzayo sokuthuthukisa ubuhlobo bomuntu siqu nokuzuza impumelelo ekuphileni. Imisebenzi yakhe ishiye umthelela omkhulu ezimpilweni zezigidi emhlabeni wonke futhi ibhekwa njengesithenjwa esibalulekile emkhakheni wokuthuthuka komuntu siqu nokuzikhuthaza.

Iba nempilo engenakukhathazeka, egcwele injabulo ngohlelo lwethu lokusebenza oluthi 'Yeka Ukukhathazeka Futhi Qala Ukuphila', eligqugquzelwe incwadi yenganekwane ka-Dale Carnegie. indlela yokuphila ejabulisayo nenempumelelo kakhudlwana. Zitholele ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani ngokuphumelelayo nezingcindezi Zansuku zonke, uzuze ukuthula kwangaphakathi, nokwakha ubudlelwano obuhle nabanye. Ngohlelo olubonakalayo lomsebenzisi olulula futhi olusebenziseka kalula, ungaqala uhambo lwakho olubheke empumelelweni nasenjabulweni manje. Landa uhlelo lokusebenza mahhala futhi uqale uhambo lwakho olubheke empilweni engcono namuhla!"

"Qala uhambo lwakho oluya empilweni engenakho ukukhathazeka negcwele injabulo ngohlelo lwethu lokusebenza lokuphayona 'Yeka Ukukhathazeka Futhi Qala Ukuphila'. Khuthazwa ukuhlakanipha kombhali omkhulu u-Dale Carnegie futhi uthole ukuthi ungayishintsha kanjani impilo yakho ibe impumelelo nejabulisayo. Isipiliyoni. Uhlelo lokusebenza lunikeza isethi ephelele yamathiphu neziqondiso zokunqoba izinselele, ukuzuza impumelelo, Nokwakha ubudlelwano obuhle. Jabulela ukusebenzelana komsebenzisi okubushelelezi nokusebenzisanayo, kanye nomklamo olula nocacile. Landa uhlelo lokusebenza manje mahhala bese uqala uhambo sokufeza amaphupho akho nokufeza izinhloso zakho. Yisikhathi sokuzikhulula ekucindezelekeni futhi uphile impilo egcwele ukuqiniseka nenjabulo. Landa uhlelo lokusebenza manje bese uqala ukushintsha impilo yakho namuhla!"

Zitholele uhlelo lwethu lokusebenza lokuphayona "Yeka Ukukhathazeka Futhi Uqale Ukuphila", okuhambisana kahle nohambo lwakho lokuzithuthukisa kanye nogqozi lomuntu siqu. Ngesethi ephelele yamathuluzi nezisetshenziswa, uhlelo lokusebenza lunikeza amasu asebenzayo okugqashula ekukhathazekeni futhi wakhe indlela yokuphila yenjabulo nempumelelo. Jabulela isiqondiso esikhuthazayo sokuzuza ukuthuthuka komuntu siqu, ukukhuthaza ukuhleleka, nokuthuthukisa ubudlelwano obuhle. Ungaphuthelwa ithuba lokuthola ukuthula kwangaphakathi noshintsho oluhle empilweni yakho. Landa uhlelo lokusebenza manje bese uqala uhambo lwakho oluya empilweni engcono nekhanya kakhudlwana!

Qala uhambo lokuthola impumelelo nokufeza izinhloso zakho ngohlelo lwethu lokusebenza olusha, "Yeka ukukhathazeka uqale ukuphila." Zitholele izimfihlo zokulinganisela kwengqondo nokuthuthuka komuntu siqu ngokusebenzisa amathuluzi ahlukahlukene nezinsiza ezitholakala kuhlelo lokusebenza. Ngesiqondiso esikhuthazayo kanye nokuzikhuthaza, uzothola indlela yokushintsha ukucabanga okungalungile kube kuhle, ukwakha ukuzethemba, nokulawula ingcindezi ngempumelelo. Jabulela izikhathi zokuphumula, ukuphila kahle kwengqondo, futhi uqale ukuphila ngokusemandleni akho. Landa uhlelo lokusebenza manje futhi uthathe uhambo olubheke empumelelweni yomuntu siqu kanye nenjabulo esimeme!

Zitholele uhlelo lwethu lokusebenza oluyingqayizivele, "Yeka Ukukhathazeka Futhi Uqale Ukuphila," olukunikeza izindlela ezisebenzayo zokuphila ngokuhle kanye nogqozi lwansuku zonke. Kulolu hlelo lokusebenza uzothola amathuluzi amaningi kanye nezinsiza zokulinganisela kwengqondo, ukwakha komuntu siqu nokuthuthukiswa kwengqondo. Jabulela ukuqina okuthuthukisiwe, ukulawula imizwa, nempilo yengqondo ethuthukisiwe. Zitholele amandla okucabanga kokudala futhi wakhe umoya oqinile okusiza ukuthi ujabulele impilo kuzo zonke izici zakhona. Landa uhlelo lokusebenza manje bese uqala uhambo lwakho olubheke empilweni egcwele ukuqiniseka nokugqugquzelwa njalo!