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Mayelana nalolu hlelo lokusebenza

• Ingabe ufuna amathiphu empilo yomshado ejabulisayo?
• Ngimjabulisa kanjani umyeni wami?
• Izimpawu ezibaluleke kakhulu zomfazi omuhle?
• Izinkinga zomshado nezisombululo zazo?
• Uba kanjani iparele lempilo yomyeni wakho?
• Izimfihlo zokuphila komshado ojabulisayo?
- Isicelo sika-Adamu no-Eva sikunikeza isisombululo:
- Indlela yokuthuthukisa impilo yakho yomshado futhi uwenze ujabule futhi uzinze. Lolu hlelo lokusebenza lunikeza isethi ephelele yezici namathuluzi akusiza ukuthuthukisa ubudlelwano bakho bomshado futhi buqine futhi bukhanye.

- Uhlelo lokusebenza lunikeza iqoqo lezeluleko nokubonisana okuklanyelwe ukuthuthukisa ukuqonda kwenu nokuqinisa ubuhlobo benu. Lapha uzothola amathuluzi anamandla azokusiza nobabili ninqobe izinselele futhi nakhe ubudlelwano obujabulisayo, obuzinzile kuzo zonke izigaba:
Kusukela ekuqaleni kokulungiselela umshado:
Lesi sigaba sithathwa njengesinye sezigaba ezibaluleke kakhulu ebudlelwaneni bomshado. Kuhlelo lokusebenza "U-Adamu no-Eva", uzothola amathuluzi nezinsiza ezizokusiza ulungiselele ukuhlanganyela okuphelele. Uzothola izeluleko zokuthi ungamkhetha kanjani umlingani ofanele wempilo, umehluko weminyaka phakathi kwakho, futhi wakhe izisekelo eziqinile zekusasa.
Ngesikhathi sokuthandana:
Lesi sigaba siza nezinselelo namathuba amaningi. Kuhlelo lokusebenza, uzothola imibono yokuthi ungalawula kanjani ukungezwani okungenzeka nokuthi yini ebangela umshado onzima noma onzima. Amathiphu azokusiza futhi ukuthi uqinise ubuhlobo bakho phakathi nalesi sikhathi.
Khona-ke ukuqala komshado:
Njengoba niqala uhambo lwenu njengombhangqwana, ningathembela kuhlelo lokusebenza lwe-“Adamu no-Eva” ukuze likusize unqobe izinkinga ezingase zibe khona futhi usebenzele ukwakha impilo yomshado ekahle. Uzothola isiqondiso mayelana nendlela yokusabalalisa izibopho, ukuthuthukisa ukuqonda nokwethembana phakathi kwakho, kanye nendlela yokubhekana nomunye nomunye.
Nomshado ophumelelayo:
Lesi sigaba yilapho wazi kahle ukuthi yini eyenza umshado wakho uphumelele. Uzothola amathiphu namathuluzi azokusiza ukuthuthukisa nokuqinisa ubudlelwano bakho. Ungathola futhi isiqondiso sokuxazulula ngempumelelo izinkinga zakho, njengokusola, umona, ubumpofu bemizwa, namathiphu okubuyisana phakathi kwakho.
Ukukhulisa izingane kuwukukhuliswa okuhle:
Uma kufika isikhathi sokukhulisa izingane, uzothola ukwesekwa okuphelele kuhlelo lokusebenza luka-Adamu no-Eva. Uzothola amathiphu okuba umzali ophumelelayo nokuthi ungaxhumana kanjani nezingane zakho ngempumelelo. Kuzoba khona izinsiza zokunisiza nobabili nihlele isikhathi futhi nilawule izinselele eziza nokukhulisa umndeni.

- Uhlelo lokusebenza luqukethe ikhalenda elihlakaniphile lokugcina nokuhlela imicimbi yakho. Ungaphinda uguqule imininingwane yomcimbi ngemuva kokuwugcina. Uhlelo lokusebenza lukwazisa ngosuku lwaso ukuze uhlale unolwazi ngemicimbi yakho futhi uyihlele kusenesikhathi, futhi ikunikeze wena neziphakamiso zezipho ezifanelekile ezifanela umcimbi wokudala izinkumbulo ezinhle ezinezipho ezikhethekile, ezihlala isikhathi eside.

Sinikeza iqembu lokuhlola okujabulisayo ukukala ukuhambisana kwenu njengombhangqwana kanye nezikhathi ezijabulisayo nozakwenu. Lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho kuthuthukisa ukuxhumana phakathi kwenu futhi kuninikeze ithuba lokuzijabulisa futhi nijabulele isikhathi senu ndawonye:
Ikuvumela ukuthi ukhumbule izinkumbulo, njengezinkumbulo zomhlangano wokuqala.
Futhi hlola ukuthi nazana kahle kangakanani nobabili.
Futhi izivivinyo zokulinganisa ubukhulu besivumelwano phakathi kwenu.
Kuvivinya futhi ikhono lakho lokuthwala imithwalo yemfanelo yomkhaya futhi ukhulise izingane zakho ndawonye ngendlela enengqondo efundisayo.
Kanye nekhono lakho lokuphatha izingxabano zakho nokuxazulula izinkinga phakathi kwakho kalula.
Futhi sihlinzeka ngemiphumela enembile yalezi zivivinyo neziqondiso zokuthuthukisa ubudlelwano bakho nokuqinisa isibopho phakathi kwakho.

- Umeluleki ozenzakalelayo ongathembela kuye ukuthi aphendule kukho konke ukubonisana kwakho ukuze akusize kuzo zonke izindaba zakho zomshado, njengokukunikeza izeluleko zokusebenzelana kahle nomlingani wakho wempilo, ukuxazulula izinkinga zakho, ukukunikeza iziphakamiso zokuthuthukisa impilo yakho yomshado, nokuningi. olunye usizo angakunikeza kalula futhi ngokuchofoza inkinobho. Uma usubhale umbuzo wakho, impendulo yakhe izovela ngokushesha ukuze ikusize kukho konke okufunayo.

- Uhlelo lokusebenza lugcina ubumfihlo bakho nokuvikeleka ngokuvikela idatha yakho, imininingwane ye-akhawunti, imicimbi yomuntu siqu, nemiphumela yokuhlolwa.

-Uhlelo luka-“Adamu no-Eva” lulwela ukuzuza injabulo nokusimama ezimpilweni zabashadikazi. Qala uhambo lwakho namuhla olubheke ezweni lomshado elingcono eligcwele injabulo nokuxhumana okunezithelo. Khulisa ukubaluleka kobudlelwane bakho bomshado futhi ubenze bujabule futhi buzinze ngokwengeziwe ngohlelo lokusebenza "lo-Adamu no-Eva", olunikeza izixazululo ezibanzi zobudlelwano bomshado obuphumelelayo nobujabulisayo.
Ithuba lokwenza impilo yakho yomshado iqhakaze futhi ijabulise.