Ingabe usukulungele ukuvula izimfihlo zobuchopho bakho futhi uthole iminyaka yakho yangaphakathi yangempela? Ngohlelo lwethu lokusebenza olusha nolujabulisayo, uzokwazi ukuthatha uhambo lokuzitholela wena futhi ufunde okwengeziwe ngawe kunalokho obukucabanga.
Ngokuvamile abantu abenzi noma bacabange iminyaka yabo, ngakho-ke nali isivivinyo. Wake wazibuza ukuthi iminyaka yakho yangaphakathi iyafana yini neminyaka yakho yangempela? Ingabe ingqondo yakho ibonakala indala kunomzimba wakho? Usuzokuthola! Emaminithini ambalwa nje ungakwazi ukulinganisa ukuvuthwa kwakho, ubone ukuthi imikhuba yakho nezici zomlingiswa ziyaqhubeka yini neminyaka yakho yobudala. Khetha impendulo ekuchaza kangcono, khumbula ukuphendula imibuzo ngokwethembeka (noma ukuze nje ukuzijabulisa ukuze ubone ukuthi ungakwazi yini ukuthola umphumela ophansi noma ophezulu).
Esikhathini esidlule, kwakuvame ukuthiwa "iminyaka yakho ayilutho ngaphandle kwenombolo". Kodwa lolu hlelo lokusebenza oluchaza iminyaka ngokwezwi nezwi inombolo eyodwa nje. Emizuzwini embalwa nje, uzokwazi ukuthatha isivivinyo esiklanywe ngokukhethekile esizolinganisela ukuvuthwa kwakho futhi sikusize ubone ukuthi imikhuba yakho nezici zomlingiswa zihambisana neminyaka yakho yangempela. Ukuhlolwa kuklanyelwe ukubala iminyaka yakho engokwengqondo, hhayi ubuhlakani bakho noma i-IQ, ngakho-ke kuyindlela ejabulisayo neyingqayizivele yokuthola ukuqondisisa ngawe.
"Uneminyaka emingaka?" umbuzo owubulima, akunjalo? Akusenjalo akusenjalo.
Yingakho kungase kuthathe ukubalwa kweminyaka ethile yengqondo ukuze uthole impendulo, futhi kuthatha ukulinganisa okukhulu. Kuyenzeka ubheke usuku oluqondile lokuzalwa kunjalo, kodwa le mitha yobudala isiza ekubaleni ingaphakathi, noma iminyaka yengqondo yawo wonke umuntu kusukela kwabancane kuye kwabadala.
Yisikhathi sokuhlola ubuchopho bakho futhi ubone ukuthi bukhulu kangakanani. Isibali sethu seminyaka yobudala siklanyelwe ukukunikeza isilinganiso esinembe kakhulu seminyaka yakho yangaphakathi, ukuze ukwazi ukubona uma ubuchopho bakho bubonakala budala noma buncane kunomzimba wakho. Ungawudlala noma nini, noma kuphi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi usekhaya noma usohambeni. Ngokuhlolwa Kweminyaka, uzokwazi ukubona ukuthi ukhule kangakanani eminyakeni edlule. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kumahhala ngokuphelele ukudlala, futhi kulula ukuyisebenzisa. Kodwa khumbula, lolu hlelo lokusebenza luhloselwe izinjongo zokuzijabulisa, hhayi iseluleko sezempilo yobuchopho bakho, mhlawumbe kufanele uthathe umphumela ngohlamvu lukasawoti. Ngakho-ke, phendula imibuzo ngokwethembeka futhi ubone ukuthi uhlanganisa kanjani.
Futhi ingxenye engcono kakhulu yalolu hlelo lokusebenza lwesilinganiso sokuqhubeka kweminyaka ukuthi ungakwazi ukuzijabulisa ngokusisebenzisa. Abangani bakho bangase babuze: "ingabe ngenza iminyaka yami?" - futhi manje unayo impendulo. Isilinganiso seminyaka yobuchopho esilula nesilula singakwazi ukuthola ezinye izindaba eziyiqiniso ezihlobene nobudala njengomthelela wezinto ozilibazisayo kanye nemfundo yokuthi ukhule kangakanani futhi mhlawumbe negebe lesizukulwane, ukuqina kwakho kwengqondo nokukhula kwakho kweminyaka. Ulokhu uzibuza ukuthi 'Sineminyaka emingaki ngokwengqondo? Ngakho-ke asiqale uhambo ukuze sithole impendulo.
Uhlelo lokusebenza luyatholakala mahhala kubo bonke abasebenzisi, lukhululekile ngokuphelele ukulisebenzisa, futhi zonke izici kulolu hlelo lokusebenza ziyatholakala mahhala. Ifanele abancane nabadala, uhlelo lokusebenza lenzelwe izinjongo zokuzijabulisa futhi aluhloli i-IQ, lukala ubuhlakani bakho noma thola izikhala olwazini lwakho, lugxile ekulinganiseni ukuvuthwa kanye nomthelela wokuguga empilweni yakho yengqondo.
Ngakho-ke, usalindeni? Dawuniloda isivivinyo sethu sobuhlakani bemizwa manje, khipha umqambi ku-equation, futhi ake sibone ukuthi iyini iminyaka yakho yangaphakathi!
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Sep 15, 2024