Hlola Ulwazi Lwakho Ngomlingani Wakho Nale Mibuzo Yezithandani!
Ingabe usethelwe i-Couples Trivia | Imibuzo? Ochwepheshe bacebisa ukwazi ulwazi oluthile lomuntu siqu mayelana nobudlelwano bakho, inqwaba yemibuzo ukuze uthole ukuthi kungakanani ongakakwazi ngomunye.
NgokukaJanet Brito, PhD, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo nobulili e-Honolulu, ukubuza umlingani wakho imibuzo enzima kukunika nobabili ithuba lokuba sengozini futhi nibe qobo lwenu lweqiniso. Thatha le mibuzo yabashadikazi njengenselele yokufeza lokho.
★ Imibuzo yezithandani...
Ngokusho kukadokotela wezengqondo nombhali wencwadi ethi Don't You Know Who I Am? URamani Durvasula, PhD, kuyakulinga ukukholelwa ukuthi usuyazi yonke into ngomlingani wakho, kodwa lokho kuyinto engenakwenzeka kakhulu. “Sazi kuphela ukuthi yini okwabelwana ngayo nathi nokuthi yini esingase sibuze ngayo,” kuqhubeka yena. "Abantu abaningi abafuni ukuphatha ingxenye yokuqala yobudlelwano njengokuphenywa kodwa bafunde ngomunye umuntu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi."
★ Imibuzo yemibuzo yobudlelwano...
Kodwa-ke, njengoba ephawula, cishe awazi konke okumele ukwazi ngomunye wakho obalulekile ngaphandle uma kwenzeka okuthile okungalindelekile ukuze kuqubule ingxoxo ngodaba oluthile olungajwayelekile. “Ngisho nezinto ezincane zamathikithi—isilwane esiyintandokazi, iphathi yosuku lokuzalwa oyintandokazi—zingase zingatholakali,” kusho uDurvasula.
★ Umdlalo wemibuzo yabashadile...
"Indlela ejabulisayo yokuqala izingxoxo nokuhlola okuncamelayo, umlando, kanye nezinto ozithakaselayo," ngokusho kukaDurvasula, iwukuba niphendule imibuzo ndawonye. Futhi, ngokusho kwakhe, "Lezi ziba isisekelo sezingxoxo eziqhubekayo nokutholwa."
★i-trivia yezithandani...
le Couples Trivia | Imibuzo njengomdlalo wobusuku obujabulisayo ngokumelene nendlela yokusho ukuthi uhloselwe ukuba yikho, noma yini. "Nakanjani ungakwenzi kube yinto oyenzayo ngesikhathi sokungqubuzana noma njengendlela yokulungisa inkinga," kusho yena. Kubalulekile futhi ukuhlonipha imingcele. “Uma umuntu ethi akakhululekile ukukhuluma noma ukuphendula okuthile, kuvumele lokho futhi ungakuphushi,” kweluleka uDurvasula.
★Isebenza kanjani imibuzo yabashadikazi:★
Ngakho-ke, nansi indlela imibuzo yezithandani esebenza ngayo: Imibuzo kufanele ikopishwe wena nomngane wakho. Phendula ngayinye ngokusekelwe kulokho okholelwa ukuthi umlingani wakho uzokusho. Uma usuqedile, shintshana ngokuzembula komunye nomunye.
Uma omunye wenu ephendula umbuzo ngendlela engalungile, lokhu kukunikeza ithuba lokuxoxa ngezinto ngendlela engathathi hlangothi, enobungane. Futhi kwenzekani lapho uthola izimpendulo ezifanele? Seningakhululeka nobabili manje njengoba nisekhasini elilodwa.
★Imibuzo ngobudlelwano
Impela, usothandweni manje. Kodwa-ke, uma nihlose ukuhlala ndawonye unomphela, kunezinkinga ezithile okufanele nixoxe ngazo ukuze uqinisekise ukuthi nisekhasini elifanayo.
"Ukuthola isimo somuntu samanje sengqondo mayelana namaphupho akhe kubalulekile," kusho uGigi Engle: A Guide To Sex, Love, and Life. "Kuyakubonisa ukuthi banesiqondiso futhi bayashayela, kokubili izinto ezibalulekile ekwakheni ubudlelwano besikhathi eside."
★ Imibuzo yezithandani...
Chithani isikhathi nomunye. Xhumana. Sungula uxhumano. Yibani seduze komunye nomunye. Thola okwengeziwe. UTrotter weluleka ukuthi uphendule imibuzo futhi ngezikhathi ezithile ukuze ubone ukuthi ushaya kuphi. "Sebenzisa isikolo sakho ukuze uzikhuthaze wena nozakwenu ukuthi nenze okwengeziwe ukuze niqhubeke nifunda kabanzi ngomunye nomunye; kubone njengokubonisa ukuthi ukuphi ebudlelwaneni." Manje qala ukuxoxa!
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Dis 13, 2023