Ukuziqonda kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokuzithuthukisa, impilo enhle yengqondo, nokuthatha ukuhlolwa kokuthembela ngokomzwelo okungenani kanye ngesonto kungaba nendima ebalulekile kule nqubo, uzokwazi ukulandelela impumelelo yakho futhi uqaphele ubuthakathaka bakho.
Ukuhlolwa kwethu kuzokusiza uqonde kangcono imizwa yakho futhi unqume izinga lokuncika ebudlelwaneni bakho.
Kuhlelo lokusebenza uzothola:
- Ukuhlolwa kokuncika ngokomzwelo: imibuzo elula nefundisayo ukuhlonza izinga lokuncika.
- Imiphumela enembile nezincomo zokuthuthukisa impilo yemizwa.
- Amathiphu awusizo wokwakha ukuzethemba nokwakha ubudlelwano obunempilo.
Uma kukhona isithukuthezi, ukuqhelelana nokungaqondi ebudlelwaneni bakho. Uma bonke ubudlelwano bakho bukhula ngokwesimo esifanayo. Uma ungaqondi ukuthi ungakhuluma kanjani nomlingani wakho futhi awunayo inkhulumomphendvulwano. Uma ubudlelwano benu bungenakho ukwethembana, izinto enizithandayo kanye nezinto enivumelana ngazo. Uma ufuna izinto zehluke ebudlelwaneni bakho obulandelayo.
Kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi uncike ngokomzwelo ebudlelwaneni. Ubudlelwano obunjalo bubizwa nge-codependent. Lokhu kuyinkinga enkulu futhi ubudlelwano obunjalo buletha usizi ngaphezu kwenjabulo - bubangela intukuthelo, ukucasuka, isidingo sokulawula umlingani, ukwephulwa njalo kwemingcele yomuntu siqu, ukwehluleka ukufeza izithembiso, kanye nokwehla okuqhubekayo kobuntu bomuntu siqu.
Lapho eshiya ubuhlobo obunjalo, umuntu uvame ukubushiya ngokuphelele ubuhlobo. Akulungile.
Kuhlelo lwethu lokusebenza, sikunikeza okuthile lapho ungaqala khona indlela yakho eya ebudlelwaneni obunempilo, ekuzinzeni kwabo nokubikezela.
Kubuyekezwe ngo-
Aga 2, 2024