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Mayelana nalolu hlelo lokusebenza

◆Izici zokwamukela noma nini

``Noma Kunini Wamukelekile Emuva'' ikuvumela ukuthi uveze imizwa yakho ngokukhululekile futhi ube nokuxhumana okuseduze endaweni ephephile nevikelekile ngokusekelwe ekuphulweni kwengqondo.

- **Ukuxhumana okungaziwa nokuphephile **

Ungakwazi ukusebenzelana ngokungaziwa ngokusekelwe kokuzilibazisa kwakho nezinto ezikukhathazayo, futhi uthumele ngokukhululekile ekamelweni lakho. Umklamo ugqugquzelwe amaqembu okuzisiza, njengokuthi ``Qhubeka ukhuluma futhi ulalele'', okuvumela ukuxhumana okuphephile ngokwengqondo.

- Easy ukusebenzisa

Okuyisisekelo ukusabela okufana nesitembu okubizwa ngokuthi "ukusabela." Futhi, ngokungafani nedayari yokushintshisana nezinhlelo zokusebenza zemiyalezo, asikho isibopho sokusabela noma ukuthumela. Ngakho-ke, ungathumela futhi usabele noma nini lapho uzizwa uthanda ngaphandle kokungabaza.

- Ungayisebenzisa ngokuvumelana nemizwa yakho nokukhathazeka kwakho.

Ihlukaniswe ngamayunithi abizwa ngokuthi "amagumbi" kuye ngokukhathazeka nezihloko. Ngakho-ke, ungayisebenzisa ngokuya ngemizwa yakho noma izinkathazo zakho, njengokuthi ``Ngifuna ukuzwa ngokukukhathazayo ngomsebenzi'' noma ``Ngifuna ukubona okuthunyelwe okukwenza uhleke kuphela''.

- Ungasabalalisi kakhulu.

Isistimu yesicelo sokuhlanganyela ikuvumela ukuthi ulawule ukuhlanganyela ekamelweni lakho. Ngaphezu kwalokho, awukho umsebenzi wokusabalalisa, ngakho-ke "i-buzz" ayenzeki. Lokhu kuvimbela okuthunyelwe kwakho ekufinyeleleni abantu abangahlosiwe futhi kubangele ukulimala kini nobabili.

- Ungakhetha umkhathi.

Amagama abizwa ngokuthi "ama-stance" (isb., Waiwai, soliloquy) angasetshenziswa ukuveza umoya wekamelo. Ngakho-ke, ungayisebenzisa ngendlela evumelana nawe, njengokuthi ``Ngifuna nje ukusabela'' noma ``Ngifuna ukujatshuliswa amazwana.''

- Ungathola abangani.

Amagama abizwa ngokuthi "amathegi" (isb. umsebenzi, umculo, njll.) angaveza isihloko segumbi. Ngakho-ke, ungathola kalula abasebenzisi abanokukhathazeka nezintshisekelo ezifanayo nezakho.

- Ungaxhumeki kakhulu.

Izimvume zamazwana zikuvumela ukuthi ulawule amazwana kokuthunyelwe kwakho. Futhi asikho isici se-DM, ngakho-ke ngeke uphoqeleke ukuthi usondelane kakhulu kunalokho okudingayo.

- **Imibuzo evamile **
- Ungabuza imibuzo mayelana nokukhathazeka okunzima ukuxoxa ngakho ebudlelwaneni bangempela bempilo, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ungaphendula ``njengomdala noma osebenza naye'' ngokusekelwe kokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho.
- Ungakwazi ukunciphisa ubuhlungu bakho ngokusiza othile.
- Isebenza ngempumelelo ekufinyeleleni ochwepheshe bezokwelapha abangazange bakwazi ukufinyelela kubo ngaphambili, futhi njengokwesekwa kontanga okuvela kwabadala nontanga abahilelekile.

- **Isici se-Avatar **

Ngomsebenzi we-avatar ofakiwe, kungenzeka ukusebenzisa ama-avatar amaningi. Ngamanye amazwi, kufana nokuba nama-akhawunti amaningi. Ngokukwazi ukusebenzisa ama-avatar ahlukene, njengokusebenzisa igama lakho langempela ukuze ukhulume ngezinto ozilibazisayo noma ukhulume ngokungaziwa ngokudideka kwakho kwangaphakathi, uzokwazi ukubamba iqhaza emphakathini ngokuthula okwengeziwe kwengqondo.

◆Isetshenziswa kanjani

Kwa-Itsuoka, ungakwazi ukukhipha kalula ukukhungatheka kwakho futhi uzwelane.

- Okokuqala, bhalisa iphrofayili yakho!
- Thumela imicabango yakho yansuku zonke ekamelweni lakho ledayari.
- Ake sithole ukuthi hlobo luni lwamakamelo atholakalayo.
- Joyina igumbi olithandayo futhi uthole indawo oyithanda kakhulu.

◆Kubantu abafana nalaba

- Ngicabanga ukuthi uyazwela emazwini nasezenzweni zabanye abantu.
- Uma kuziwa ekuhlanganyeleni, ngicabanga ``ukuzwana'' kunokuthi ``ukuzwana''.
- Ngizwa sengathi izingxoxo zethu namagugu akusafani nabangane bakudala.
- Ngiya emuva naphambili phakathi kokuzibeka icala nokusola abanye.
- Ukubamba umhlangano wokuzicabangela futhi ucabange, ``Mhlawumbe angiwakhethanga kahle amagama ami ngaleso sikhathi.''
- Akulula ukuthi, "Ngiyaqonda."
- Akulula ukuthi, "Inhlanhla."
- Ngiyathanda ukuba ngedwa, kodwa ngizizwa ngingakhululekile uma abantu becabanga ukuthi ngingedwa.
- Angithandi ukuthi imizwa yami inqunywe noma ngahlulelwe.
- Ngihalela abantu abakwazi ukukhala emikhosini yokuthweswa iziqu.

◆Ngezikhathi ezifana nalezi

- Uma ukhathele uvela emsebenzini noma unenkinga ngobudlelwano.
- Uma unemizwa engenandawo ongaya kuyo, njengezikhalazo noma intukuthelo.
- Uma ufuna ukubhekana nemizwa yakho futhi uyiveze kancane.
- Uma ufuna ukuthola abangani abanezinkinga ezifana nezakho.

◆Isendlalelo sokudalwa kwesithi “Siyakwamukela futhi noma kunini”

Usizi luvame ukufaniswa nemvula. Impela, zombili zikhona ekuphileni kwethu kwansuku zonke, futhi nakuba zingezinhle ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngezinye izikhathi zingasilethela ingcebo. Umehluko nje wukuthi asinaso isambulela sosizi.

Imizwa yokudabuka, isithukuthezi, ukukhathazeka, njll. iphakama enhliziyweni yawo wonke umuntu. Kithina esingenazo izambulela siyayidinga indawo esingakhipha kuyo ukukhungatheka kwethu sibambe imvula. Nokho, ukukhuluma ngokuthile kudinga isibindi ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ikakhulukazi uma kunegethivu noma into oyizwayo iwubuthakathaka bakho. Ngakho bangaki abantu abanendawo lapho bengazizwa bephephile futhi baveze imizwa yabo?

Eminyakeni yamuva nje, isimo sobudlelwane babantu sishintshe kakhulu. Ukuxhumana engangikwenzile kuze kube yileso sikhathi kwancipha, futhi kwaba nzima ukwakha ubuhlobo obusha. Yebo, sekuvele ukuhlangana okusha, kodwa akuwona wonke umuntu okwazile ukuzivumelanisa nezimo.

Ukusetshenziswa kwezikhungo ezikhethekile njengokunakekelwa kwezokwelapha kanye nokwelulekwa kubonakala kunzima ngokwengqondo nangokwezimali. Futhi, kubonakala sengathi abantu abaningi bakhathazekile ngokuthi bazogxekwa ngendlela engafanele lapho befaka izinkathazo nezinkathazo zabo ezinkundleni zokuxhumana.

UMoyamo uyazalwa, kodwa ayikho indawo yokuwukhipha. ``Anytime Welcome'' yazalwa ngemva kokuzwa umsindo we-alamu wedamu enhliziyweni yami. I-"Itsuka" umphakathi oku-inthanethi ovaliwe lapho ungakwazi khona ukuveza imizwa yakho ngokuphephile futhi nizwelane, eningakwazi ukukusho empilweni yangempela. Ngokusekelwe emcabangweni "wokwamukela imizwa yomunye nomunye," le SNS inomklamo omusha ngokuphelele ohlanganisa amathiphu okunakekelwa kwengqondo njengokuthi "ungasho lutho futhi ungalaleli noma yini" kanye nolwazi ekusekelweni kwezenhlalakahle. , kodwa inomuzwa wokungajabuli. Ungadalula ukukhathazeka kwakho noma ukhuthaze othile ngesineke ngenkathi ugcina ukuxhumana okuthambile ngaphandle kokugxekwa kakhulu. Masidale indawo enethezekile yokuba ku-inthanethi, egxile emizweni yethu ebalulekile.

Izinsuku lapho ngivele ngingalali, izinsuku lapho ngigijimela endlini yokugezela ngikhala, izinsuku lapho ngingakwazi ngisho nokuhlanganisa amandla okuvuka. ``I-Itsuka'' ifuna ukuba yindawo yakho yokuphumula njengoba ulwa neqiniso ngezinye izikhathi elinonya. Siyabonga isibindi senu sokuvula leli khasi nangenhlanhla yethu yokuhlangana nani. Inhloso yethu ukusiza lesi siko elimnene ligxile emhlabeni wesimanje, lapho ``Kumnandi khona ukuveza ukukhungatheka kwakho.''

◆Isetshenziswa kanjani

Esimeni esingenakwenzeka lapho othile ebeka amazwana angenanhliziyo noma kunesihloko esenza kube buhlungu ukusibuka, sicela usebenzise umsebenzi wokuvimba. Uma usuvimbe umuntu, ngeke esabonakala uze umvule. Futhi, uma uzwa sengathi othile uphinda amazwi amaningi, ungabika kumlawuli. (Abaphathi bazokwenza isinqumo futhi baphendule kunoma yiziphi izikhalazo.)

◆Inqubomgomo yobumfihlo
https://www.notion.so/a741317eb93f47d7ab52616b75b50739?pvs=21

◆Imigomo yokusebenzisa
https://www.notion.so/be91fb89cf4d41f5afe36698704d498e?pvs=21

◆Imibono, njll.

``Noma Kunini Wamukela Emuva'' ihlose ukwakha indawo engcono yokuhlala ndawonye nabo bonke abasebenzisi. Uma uneminye imibono, izicelo zokuthuthukiswa, nanoma yini ongathanda ukuyisho ngamasevisi ethu, sicela ukhululeke ukuxhumana nathi.

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Inothi elisemthethweni: https://note.com/itsudemookaeri/n/na386ecc72e3f