Diem: Big Group Chat Energy

3.0
177 reviews
10K+
Downloads
Content rating
Teen
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About this app

AI Search, Community Chats

Welcome to Diem! We’re building your new front door to the internet.

Diem is a search-engine-meets-social-network designed first for girls, women, and LGBTQIA+ folks. You can search the internet with Diem AI and find answers to anything life throws at you. “How do I get over a friend breakup? What’s the best way to negotiate salary? My boyfriend follows models on Instagram—is that a red flag?” Diem is here to help.

Our platform is also full of novel, collective knowledge from people all over the world. You can socialize your search to start conversations, discover a network of communities, connect over shared experiences and browse trending topics.

Joining Diem means showing up with no judgment and immersing yourself in the candid, funny, authentic, important, supportive, outrageous, honest, and wholesome questions of other Diemers, which span everything from birth control to friendship, sexuality to pop culture, parenting to relationships, money to reproductive health, career to books, and so much more. Diem feels more like searching for answers in the girls’ bathroom than spiraling alone on the internet.

Here’s what you can find in the app today:

Diem AI-powered search

Ask Diem AI, our AI-powered search tool, your questions! Our search engine is designed to be less bias than other models. You can think of Diem AI as your most knowledgeable Virgo “big sister” who lives in your back pocket. Diem AI draws from across the internet and the collective wisdom of Diemers to generate you a speedy answer. When you ask Diem AI you’ll receive a short summary answer, community sources (previous, related conversations in Diem), community spaces, web pages, Reddit threads and TikTok videos. You can dive in to these search results OR you can post your search to the community feed to get real-time feedback from people who’ve been there.

Diem AI Lenses

You can now ask questions of leading experts and your fave creators in Diem. Ask their Lens anything and your search result will feature their opinions & content from across the internet.

Discover thousands of authentic conversations

From awkward sex questions to wholesome big sisterly advice or navigating life’s highs and lows, Diem is full of the collective knowledge of girls, women, and LGBTQIA+ folks in over 100 countries.There’s no judgment here and you’ll feel that very quickly.

Post anonymously or under a pseudonym

We think of the anonymous feature as a confidence booster. Sometimes posting ‘taboo’ questions or personal stories publicly can be nerve-wracking, so this feature is designed to make you feel more comfortable while getting the advice you need.

Community Spaces

Community Spaces are micro communities that are also discoverable when related questions are searched via Diem AI. A few currently live: Am I wrong?, Big Sis Advice (BSA) and Is this Normal…? (ITN) We’re still early in building out Spaces and you can request additional Spaces or host your own.

Creating Posts

If you have a longer story, recommendation or advice to offer you can click the + button on your Discover feed and type out all your stories or wisdom. These posts will be discovered via the search engine and in Diemer’s discovery feeds.

Upvoting & Bookmarking

See a post or response you want to save for later or give some love to, click to bookmark, “heart” or upvote it!

Safety & Privacy First

Safety & moderation are our top priority at Diem. See something, say something! We have distributed moderation—if you report something, we review it, ensuring there’s no violation of the community culture. We also take your privacy very seriously—whatever you search is your business.

We’re still early in our journey to build Diem into your new ‘front door’ to the internet, if you have any problems or ideas for the app, get support at help@askdiem.com.

Happy Dieming!

Privacy Policy: https://www.askdiem.com/privacy-policy
Terms of Service: https://www.askdiem.com/terms-of-service
Updated on
Jul 18, 2025

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
This app may share these data types with third parties
Personal info
This app may collect these data types
Location, Personal info and 5 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

3.0
172 reviews
Kendra Vaughan
January 15, 2024
So excited to get into this app, but I think it's gaining *too* much traction cos it keeps crashing??? I've made an account but haven't seen the home screen yet - hopefully the devs can jump on top of this problem quickly, I'm excited to try it! EDIT: it's been a few days and I still can't get in. Not only that, but it's put me back at the sign-in page and says my email is both "not recognized" AND "already exists" and doesn't provide a solution or contact. Big problems. My hopes are dashed.
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Diem Tech
March 27, 2024
Hi Kendra! We're so excited to welcome you and you are indeed correct, we were gaining too much traction! We have been working for the last 2 months to upgrade our infrastructure and in great news, it should be working again smoothly in the coming few days!
Danielle Bergeron
April 24, 2025
I really want to like this app, but it crashes more than it actually works. I have to try and open it 5 or 6 times before it'll actually stay open (it flashes open then crashes) and then crashes after being open for a few minutes anyways. I can't open the little treat store without it immediately crashing either. A great concept, but not a great execution.
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Kristiina Jääskeläinen
March 2, 2025
I had high hopes for this, but I guess I missunderstood the purpose. There's no option for science, world news or politics etc when you choose your interests. I definitely do not want notifications like "Best cures for bloating", "Find the the best products for dull hair". Think about the most stereotypical old-fashioned view of a woman (worrying about looks, frizzy hair, "Does he like me?") -> this is the kind of content you see here. Women come in various forms. We are so much more.
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What’s new

Hi Diemers! It’s been a while and we have a juicy new update for you!

- New! Focused modes of using Diem—choose between Diem AI mode or Community mode when you enter the app, easily switch between them at any time
- Updates to global navigation through a new menu
- Huge optimizations, bug fixes & UI improvements across the entire app

App support

About the developer
Diem Enterprises Inc.
emma@askdiem.com
155 Ridge St APT 5K New York, NY 10002-1830 United States
+1 917-340-2496