Bender

In-app purchases
2.6
110 reviews
50K+
Downloads
Content rating
Mature 17+
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About this app

Bender, the premier gender-fluid dating app! With a stylish, modern look and feel, easy to use, better functionality and large range of features, Bender will help you fulfil your desire to meet and date your ideal match wherever you are.
Bender is an app created by members of the LGBTQ+ community for members of the LGBTQ+ community. Just as ‘queer’ has been reclaimed, we have reclaimed the name ‘Bender’ in the same way. Also, who doesn’t like ‘going out on a bender’ on occasion?
For a fee of £10 per month, Bender is totally ad-free! No more annoying pop-up banners and videos spoiling your experience.
This gives access to all Bender Premium features to EVERYONE:
 Totally Ad-Free
 Brand Live Location feature – see people live on Google Maps and chat from the live location screen.
 Browse up to 600 potential dates sorted by distance from your current location.
 See a summary of a potential date from the grid page.
 Advanced filtering facility to make matching yourself with the right person easier and quicker.
 Bender Travel – search any location anywhere around the world and arrange your dates before arriving at your destination.
 Fully featured chat functionality with the ability to see when someone is typing and when they have read your message.
 Ability to store and share public and private photos within the app.
 Give someone a “Seal of Approval” – Do you know the person? Can you vouch for them? Did you meet up? Was it a successful date? Were they genuine? A brand-new feature that will help ensure your next date is reliable and who match their description.
 See who Favourited Me
 See who viewed my profile
Bender Security and Privacy
 No data will ever be shared with any third party.
 Secure signup and login procedure to prevent fake profiles.
 Ability to report and block unwanted users.
 Keep Private photos private only share with matches you choose.
 All public photos will be approved by Bender Admin before they are available to view.
 Bender is for adults aged 18 and over.
Updated on
Nov 26, 2025

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
No data shared with third parties
Learn more about how developers declare sharing
This app may collect these data types
Location, Personal info and 6 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

2.6
109 reviews
S90 S90
April 7, 2022
To add to another users comments, and for the developers, When you download the app, and start clicking around, it states, developers to add text.... Just purchased a one month subscription to see if it's any better but sadly it's not. Firstly users at the top are almost 400km away, then it randomly places profiles by closer distance but not in any order. The second row are about 15km away, then the ones below that become a little more organized. Not enough space to report all issues. Bad app!
11 people found this review helpful
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Bender Dating Ltd
April 18, 2022
Sorry to hear you are unhappy with the app. Unfortunately, we have no record of you purchasing a one month subscription so I'm not sure what features you are seeing or are not able to see work. If you are using the app outside the UK then it will take time (we are a new app) to build numbers in your area. Numbers are growing continually.
Richard Beck
January 8, 2022
Bender is a new addition to the world of relationships and dating. It has much in common with similar apps, but there are some significant points of difference. Most significantly there are no pop-up ads or gifs that appear on you page. The layout is simple and the images are clear with good resolution. Your profile page is easy to set up and made simple by sliders that give you a high/low range for certain qualities you possess as well as tick boxes for things you're into or looking for. A comforting feature is the ability to give a 'Seal of Approval' to someone you've met or know. Location distances are clearly displayed and it's possible to search somewhere if it's not your own locality. Public and private photos are easily uploaded. There is also Bender Premium for those who want even more feature at a rate much lower than comparable apps. I should do well. It just needs more people to sign up, spread the word and start using it. Disclaimer: This review will appear with my name, so I will say now that I know the creators or the app, but those who know will will vouch for the fact that when it comes to reviews I am always honest and reliable.
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V Sharma
April 19, 2022
This app is very confusing. Created profile and uploaded pics in the morning. The pics were still in review towards evening. So wondering what's the point of this app. I uninstalled it
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About the developer
BENDER DATING LTD
liam@breezedevelopment.co.uk
42 Queens Road ABERDEEN AB15 4YE United Kingdom
+44 7702 029817

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