ChatMend: Attachment Style AI

ChatMend

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About this app

Find out what your texts say about your relationship. ChatMend reads one conversation you choose and gives an attachment style analysis for both people (secure, anxious, avoidant or fearful-avoidant), along with communication patterns, mixed signals, pursue-withdraw cycles and practical next steps. Works with text messages and WhatsApp chat exports.

ChatMend is not a medical device and does not diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any medical condition. Consult a qualified professional for advice. ChatMend gives automated, informational insight into how two people communicate. It is not therapy and not emergency help.

HOW IT WORKS
1. Save one conversation as a file with the ChatMend SMS Backup app (XML, JSON, CSV or TXT).
2. Import that one file into ChatMend. ChatMend never reads the texts on your phone; it only sees the file you choose.
3. Pick which name is you, the kind of relationship, and which messages to include.
4. Choose a Quick Look or a Complete Report.

QUICK LOOK (FREE)
Measured entirely on your phone; nothing is uploaded. See who reaches out first, typical and slowest reply times, the longest silences, and how the conversation changed over time.

COMPLETE REPORT
An AI-written report on the whole conversation: an attachment-style read for each person with how confident it is, recurring patterns and triggers, strengths and concerns, and practical scripts for hard conversations. Ask follow-up questions about the report. Re-opening a conversation you have already paid for is free.

LIBRARY
Plain-language guides to attachment styles, a relationship self-test, communication playbooks, and compatibility notes.

YOUR DATA
- You must be 18 or older and have the right to share the conversation you import.
- For a Complete Report, the messages you select are sent securely to ChatMend's server and to our AI provider to write the report. The messages themselves are not kept; the report is saved so you can reopen it.
- No ads. No account or sign-up.
- Delete everything at any time in Settings > Delete My Data.
- You can report any AI result you find harmful or inaccurate from inside the report.

If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, contact local emergency services or a crisis line right away. In the US, call or text 988.

Privacy policy: https://chatmend.com/privacy-policy

What’s new

First release of ChatMend. Import one saved conversation and get a free Quick Look, or the full Complete Report: each person's attachment style, communication patterns and practical suggestions. Save the report as a PDF to keep or print.