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About this app

3rder - An Alternative Dating App for Like-Minded Couples & Singles
Explore modern dating ways beyond labels. 3rder is the go-to community for couples and singles ready to embrace open relationships and new connections -where real people explore real connections without labels and pressure.

For Open-Minded People Like You
Whether you're a couple exploring your first adventure together, a single curious about alternative relationship styles, or anywhere in between - 3rder makes it easy to find like-minded connections. Straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, queer, or transgender, everyone belongs here.

What Can 3rder Bring to Your Life
- Discover couples and singles near you with advanced location-based matching
- Filter by relationship style, preferences, and orientation
- Chat privately and get to know people at your own pace
- Explore friendships, casual fun, open couple, curious bi singles and non-judgment connections
- Find real, meaningful relationships - not just a fleeting moment

Your Privacy, Fully Protected
We understand that privacy is especially critical for those exploring open relationships. 3rder uses strict data encryption to keep your information safe - your phone number, email, photos, and location are never shared with or sold to any third party. You have full control over your profile at all times - edit, hide, or delete your information whenever you choose.

A Global Community, Close to Home
3rder connects open-minded adults in 90+ countries. Whether you're in a major city or a smaller town, your people are out there.

Before Get Started
3rder is for adults 18 and over. By continuing, you agree to our Terms of Service and Privacy Policy. To keep this community safe and welcoming for everyone, accounts that violate our guidelines may be restricted or removed.

Join millions of open-minded couples and singles worldwide if you are ready for the adventure -download 3rder free today.

Ratings and reviews

I’ve had a genuinely positive experience with 3rder. The app is easy to navigate, profiles load quickly, and matching feels more relevant than on many other dating platforms. I appreciate the clean design and the ability to connect with people who share similar interests. Messaging has been smooth, and I’ve already had several enjoyable conversations. While there’s always room for more active users in some areas, the overall experience has been enjoyable, reliable, and definitely worth it.

My experience with 3rder has been very positive. The app is well designed, responsive, and easy to use even for first-time users. I like how simple it is to browse profiles, connect with others, and start conversations. The matching process feels thoughtful, and I've met several genuine people through the platform. Everything works smoothly, making the experience enjoyable from start to finish. I would definitely recommend 3rder to anyone looking for a reliable and engaging dating app online.

As someone extremely new to the alternative relationships lifestyle, I was rather hesitant at first to dive into something like this. But I'm really glad I decided to give this app a try. The sign-up process was incredibly fast and easy, and before I knew it, I was able to explore the app freely and on my own terms. I was worried about an app like this feeling overwhelming or aggressive, but the overall experience felt very safe, casual and fun. I would recommend it to anyone curious like I was.

What’s new

3rder, a brand-new dating application catering to both singles and couples, officially launches for the first time. Breaking the limits of traditional dating platforms, 3rder builds an open, friendly social space that embraces singles seeking matches and couples looking to connect with similar groups. We sincerely welcome all singles and couples to complete registration, discover matching partners, and enjoy safe, sincere dating interactions on our newly launched platform.