eharmony dating & real love

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About this app

With eharmony, dating is about more than just meeting new people – it’s about building a meaningful, lasting relationship. As the No.1 trusted dating app* we’ve helped over 2 million couples find real love. Download and join free to find out why compatibility matters.

HOW DOES THE EHARMONY DATING APP WORK?
When it comes to dating, compatibility matters. That’s why we’ve created our unique Compatibility Matching System to ensure each of your Matches are based on qualities that are important to you. Compared to other dating apps, we make finding love simple. We’ll guide you through the process in easy steps:

STEP 1: TELL US ABOUT YOURSELF
Your journey on our dating app starts with the Compatibility Quiz. Your answers help us understand exactly what you’re looking for and what matters most to you in a relationship.

STEP 2: FILL OUT YOUR PROFILE
The next step to finding love is setting up your profile. We provide thoughtful prompts that help you show what makes you, you. We make online dating as enjoyable as possible by having richly detailed profiles that are easy to digest. That’s why eharmony is the dating app with the highest-rated user profiles**.

STEP 3: EXPLORE SINGLES THAT MATCH YOUR PERSONALITY
Based on your answers to the Compatibility Quiz, eharmony’s matching algorithm determines which singles are the best fit for you. You can see how well you match based on your matching score. The higher the score, the greater the chance of falling in love.

STEP 4: START A CONVERSATION
It’s time to connect! Show your interest with a Like and send a first message. Once you get a Like in return, it’s a Match. With Premium memberships you can now swap messages and get to know each other better.

WHAT OUR DATING APP OFFERS TO YOU TO FIND A PARTNER
We focus on serious intentions: that’s why every profile must be at least 50% complete.
Our unique Compatibility Matching System helps you meet singles who are truly compatible with you: when it comes to love, we rely on our matching system rather than pure chance.
We’re committed to providing a trusted space for online dating: with thoughtful safeguards, clear guidance, and a dedicated Trust and Safety team, you can connect with confidence.

THE REVIEWS ARE IN
"If you're in your 40s and ready to commit, like really commit, eharmony is where you want to be." (Mashable)
"Best dating app for long-term relationships. " (GQ)

START YOUR NEXT CHAPTER WITH OUR DATING APP
The Basic Membership is your default free membership upon joining, where you can gain some online dating experience and understand the app before upgrading to Premium. Some limitations may apply.

The Premium Membership is not free, but it is worth it. This gives you full access to all of eharmony’s features and capabilities, making it much easier to find a connection with your ideal partner.

Membership structure – Online dating is a journey that shouldn’t be rushed. We believe that shorter plans don’t give you the time to properly get to know your matches, which is why our Premium Membership is available in different durations.

Download our dating app today and find real love.

Our terms & conditions:
Privacy Policy: https://www.eharmony.com/privacypolicy/
Terms & Conditions: https://www.eharmony.com/termsandconditions/
Supplemental Privacy Policy: https://www.eharmony.com/privacypolicy/#pp15

*Based on 2022 Survey of 1,300 Respondents from the US, UK, Canada and Australia
** 2023 survey of 2,807 dating app users in the U.S., UK, Canada and Australia
Updated on
May 19, 2026

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
This app may share these data types with third parties
Personal info and Device or other IDs
This app may collect these data types
Location, Personal info and 6 others
Data is encrypted in transit
You can request that data be deleted

Ratings and reviews

3.0
63.2K reviews
Preston Stone
September 18, 2024
It's possible that it could find you a real person. You just need to fork over nearly $400 to make it usable. I would have been happy to pay one month, test it out, and give a more educated opinion, but that isnt a thing. The free version of this app shows only blurred out photos, possibly good to mitigate shallow biases, but in an era of ai imagery and scammers, those photos are needed. Many people suggested to you are in different states or countries, and no preference seems to matter. :(
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Derek Podrasky
August 14, 2025
don't bother. you make a whole profile and then to even do ANYTHING on the app you need to pay... how much ? who knows. they throw a 50% discount at you but there's no way to redeem it and no way to upgrade your account on the app. they clearly don't care about people and just want the money. you can't even message people or see their messages to you without paying. literally a scam
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eharmony Inc.
September 23, 2025
Hi, We can understand that you expect dating with our app to be completely free, as you know it from other dating sites or apps. However, at eharmony, more than 200 employees are dedicated to make online dating a safe experience for you. We support and advise all along your journey.
Xander Hamer
March 15, 2026
Actual garbage: while other apps actually let you chat, all you can do is do these stupid "icebreakers" and send a smile once a day. You can't see photos of people unless you pay for premium, same goes for messaging. I've also seen several reviews saying you can't read messages unless you have premium, so even if one has it, the other has to get it too. If you attempt to add any handles, they review it to prevent you from contacting matches from outside the app. Make messaging free.
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eharmony Inc.
March 17, 2026
Hi, Wondering why the full dating experience with our app is not free? More than 200 passionate & qualified people care about you and your success story. From data security, and the consistent development of new features, to personal advice and online dating tips, we want to make sure you find real love.

What’s new

This update includes bug fixes and quality improvements.