IF — Dating & Secret Crushes

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Content rating
Mature 17+
Content rating
Mature 17+
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About this app

What IF they knew how you felt all along?

IF is the dating app for feelings that need the right moment — built around four original mechanics.

1. THE IF — A CONDITIONAL, HIDDEN MESSAGE
Send an IF to someone you can't stop thinking about — on IF, or to someone who isn't on IF yet, by email, phone number, or @ handle. It isn't delivered like a DM. It waits, sealed and private — your name and your message stay hidden — and it only ever opens IF:
• you become single, or
• they become single, or
• you both do.
Whatever your status, whatever theirs, your IF waits until the time is right. And if the timing never comes? No one ever knows. Quietly, always.

2. YOU CONTROL THE REVEAL
Every reveal waits for you. If you become single last, changing your status is what starts it. If they become single first, you get 24 hours to approve the reveal — or quietly withdraw. Nothing happens without your say-so.

3. NEEDS / WANTS — FILTER, RANK, SPLIT
Filters you don't just apply. Rank them by importance, then split the list into Needs (non-negotiable) and Wants (nice-to-have). Your deck is built from what actually matters to you, in the order it matters.

4. MAKE IT IF OFFICIAL
IF is the dating app with a relationship status. When you find your person, update your status — your likes, IFs, and chats are cleared so you can focus on them. Keep your account, though: an IF can still find you. Just in case.

AND EVERYTHING YOU'D EXPECT
Swipe through singles and people in relationships, search for someone specific by email, phone, or @, match, and chat without limits. In the end, only one chat matters.

START FREE
Everything you need to send your first IF is free. Upgrade to IF for more reach and visibility, or IFinity to go unlimited — with a 7-day free trial.

Privacy Policy: https://ifdating.app/privacy
Terms of Service: https://ifdating.app/terms
Safety Tips: https://ifdating.app/safety
Questions? support@ifdating.app
A hidden message they'll only ever see IF you both end up single.
Updated on
Jul 16, 2026

Data safety

Safety starts with understanding how developers collect and share your data. Data privacy and security practices may vary based on your use, region, and age. The developer provided this information and may update it over time.
  • No data shared with third parties
    Learn more about how developers declare sharing
  • This app may collect these data types
    Location, Personal info and 6 others
  • Data is encrypted in transit
  • You can request that data be deleted
Content rating
Mature 17+
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App support

About the developer
If App, Inc.
support@ifdating.app
251 Little Falls Dr Wilmington, DE 19808-1674 United States
+1 302-600-1575