IRelate
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Most people don't date badly on purpose. They date from the level they're at.
IRelate places you on one of nine levels of relationship consciousness — from reactive patterns to deep presence — through real dating scenarios, not personality tests.
── HOW IT WORKS ──
Take the Check-In
Answer scenario-based questions drawn from real dating moments. No abstract self-descriptions — just honest situations you actually recognise.
Find Your Level
Get placed on one of nine levels — from The Taker to The Surrendered — with a full breakdown of your patterns, blind spots, and relational habits.
Grow From It
Each level comes with your dating patterns, your red flags, and one clear growth edge — the single shift that moves you forward.
── THE NINE LEVELS ──
1. The Taker — I want what I want, and I want it now.
2. The Avoider — I protect myself by staying small.
3. The Conformist — I date the way I'm supposed to.
4. The Rule-Keeper — There is a right way to do this.
5. The Self-Author — I know who I am. I choose consciously.
6. The Empath — I see you. I feel you. I accept all of you.
7. The Integrator — I am not my mind — and neither are you.
8. The Constructor — I watch how I'm building the story.
9. The Surrendered — The first step is already enough.
── TRACK YOUR GROWTH ──
Check in regularly and watch your level shift over time. The Growth tab charts your journey and surfaces patterns across your history.
── FREE TO START ──
Your first check-in is free. Unlock unlimited check-ins and full growth history with a subscription.
This is not a compatibility test. It's a mirror.
IRelate places you on one of nine levels of relationship consciousness — from reactive patterns to deep presence — through real dating scenarios, not personality tests.
── HOW IT WORKS ──
Take the Check-In
Answer scenario-based questions drawn from real dating moments. No abstract self-descriptions — just honest situations you actually recognise.
Find Your Level
Get placed on one of nine levels — from The Taker to The Surrendered — with a full breakdown of your patterns, blind spots, and relational habits.
Grow From It
Each level comes with your dating patterns, your red flags, and one clear growth edge — the single shift that moves you forward.
── THE NINE LEVELS ──
1. The Taker — I want what I want, and I want it now.
2. The Avoider — I protect myself by staying small.
3. The Conformist — I date the way I'm supposed to.
4. The Rule-Keeper — There is a right way to do this.
5. The Self-Author — I know who I am. I choose consciously.
6. The Empath — I see you. I feel you. I accept all of you.
7. The Integrator — I am not my mind — and neither are you.
8. The Constructor — I watch how I'm building the story.
9. The Surrendered — The first step is already enough.
── TRACK YOUR GROWTH ──
Check in regularly and watch your level shift over time. The Growth tab charts your journey and surfaces patterns across your history.
── FREE TO START ──
Your first check-in is free. Unlock unlimited check-ins and full growth history with a subscription.
This is not a compatibility test. It's a mirror.
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What’s new
Welcome to Relate — your relationship health companion.
Reflection check-ins now have a 60-second timer per scenario to keep you present and honest
A live countdown banner appears at 40s and 20s to let you know time is running low
If the timer runs out, your reflection resets so only intentional answers are recorded
Improved support for large screens, foldables, and multi-window mode
Edge-to-edge display improvements for a cleaner, more immersive experience
Reflection check-ins now have a 60-second timer per scenario to keep you present and honest
A live countdown banner appears at 40s and 20s to let you know time is running low
If the timer runs out, your reflection resets so only intentional answers are recorded
Improved support for large screens, foldables, and multi-window mode
Edge-to-edge display improvements for a cleaner, more immersive experience
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Phone number
+27745289946
About the developer
MBILASHOBANE (PTY) LTD
sales@i-biznis.com
49 SABAI SMITH ST
OLIVEDALE
2188
South Africa
+27 74 528 9946
