Selka: Dating Red Flag Scanner

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About this app

Not sure what that text meant? Selka is your AI relationship analyzer for dating texts, chats, and screenshots from Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, WhatsApp, Instagram, Snapchat, and iMessage. Spot red flags, green flags, and mixed signals before you spiral.

WHY SELKA

Dating is hard enough without second-guessing every message. Selka turns confusing chats into clear answers — no more screenshotting conversations into the group chat at 2am asking what they really meant. Private AI chat analysis. No judgment.

HOW IT WORKS

1. Take a screenshot of any chat or text conversation
2. Drop it into Selka — works with WhatsApp, iMessage, Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, Instagram, Snapchat, and more
3. Get an instant AI red flag report: manipulation patterns, attachment style, interest level, and green flags

KEY FEATURES

— Red flag scanner: AI analyzes texts for gaslighting, love bombing, breadcrumbing, and unhealthy patterns
— Green flag detector: balanced read so you also see what's healthy, not just what's wrong
— Screenshot scanner: chat screenshots from any messaging or dating app
— Voice note analysis: scan voice messages for tone, intent, and red flags
— Partner compare: stack two people side by side to see who treats you better
— Attachment style read: identify anxious, avoidant, and secure patterns in dating
— Communication insights: response times, peak hours, and who's putting in effort
— Weekly relationship reports: track patterns across your dating life over time
— Personalized dating coach tips after every scan

WHO SELKA IS FOR

— Anyone dating and tired of mixed signals, ghosting, breadcrumbing, or situationships
— People who want clarity on what their texts actually say
— Daters who want to spot toxic relationship red flags early — before commitment
— Anyone in a new relationship wondering if the icks are real or in their head
— People healing from a toxic ex who want to recognize manipulation patterns next time
— Anyone comparing two partners and trying to decide who's right for them

WHAT SELKA SPOTS

— Early dating red flags and subtle warning signs hidden in texts
— Gaslighting, love bombing, and emotional manipulation in chats
— Narcissist behavior patterns and covert control in relationships
— Cheating signals, dishonesty, and inconsistent communication
— Avoidant attachment, anxious attachment, and unhealthy dynamics
— Breadcrumbing, future faking, and slow fades
— Green flags: emotional availability, consistency, accountability, healthy communication

YOUR DATING COACH IN YOUR POCKET

Selka is more than a red flag detector — it's an AI dating coach. Every scan teaches you what healthy texting looks like, so you stop second-guessing and start trusting your gut, backed by real analysis.

PRIVACY FIRST

Your screenshots and chats are processed securely and never shared. Selka is built for people who want clarity, not surveillance.

Selka Premium
Unlimited scans, partner tracking, comparison, premium insights, and full history access.

Whether you're spotting red flags in a new relationship, decoding a confusing situationship, comparing two partners, or trying to text smarter — Selka gives you the clarity dating apps never will.

Download Selka today, scan your first chat in seconds, and finally stop guessing what their texts really mean.
Updated on
Jun 9, 2026

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