Thammil (തമ്മിൽ) is a Malayalam dating app for Malayalis in Kerala, across India, and in the Gulf.
"Thammil" means between us. Every match here is mutual: you both said yes, or nothing happens. No cold DMs, no strangers in your inbox.
WHY MALAYALIS CHOOSE THAMMIL
• Photo-verified profiles — a live selfie check against your photos to help reduce impersonation
• WhatsApp number verification on every account
• Free to join, free to match, free to chat
• Her Challenge — women post a question, men answer it, and she picks who gets the match. Quality over quantity.
• Block and report on every profile, with automated screening plus human review of reports
• Made for Malayalis, with profile, chat, block, and report tools
HOW IT WORKS
Discover
Browse verified Malayali singles in Kochi, Thiruvananthapuram, Kozhikode, Thrissur, Kannur, Bengaluru, Chennai, and Gulf cities like Dubai, Doha, Riyadh and Muscat. Filter by age, district, profession, languages and what you are looking for.
Her Challenge
Tired of low-effort messages? Post a challenge question. Only thoughtful answers reach you, and you choose who to match with.
Chats
Matches open a private chat. Unanswered matches expire after 24 hours, so your inbox stays full of people who actually want to talk.
Premium (optional)
• Unlimited daily swipes
• See everyone who liked you
• SuperSwipe to stand out
• Extend a match before it expires
• Advanced filters
You never need to pay to find a match. Premium is for people who want more.
WHO IS THAMMIL FOR?
• Malayali men and women aged 18+ looking for serious dating, friendship or marriage
• Singles in Kerala, in Bengaluru and Chennai, and Malayalis working in the Gulf
• Anyone tired of apps that treat all of India as one market
• Women who want a dating app that respects their time
WHY WE BUILT THAMMIL
Thammil is built around trust, real conversation, and matches that respect the
culture you grew up in. It brings Malayalis verified profiles, mutual matches,
and a safety team you can reach.
GET STARTED IN 60 SECONDS
1. Download Thammil
2. Verify your WhatsApp number and selfie
3. Set up your profile
4. Start matching with verified Malayali singles
Thammil is free to download and free to use. In-app purchases optional.
Have feedback? Email smewritingagency@gmail.com — we read everything.
മലയാളികൾക്കായി. (Made for Malayalis.)
Malayalam dating for Kerala & the Gulf. Verified profiles, safe chats.