Most families live somewhere between "we're fine" and "we need help." Something nags – but therapy feels like a big step. SAMRUM is built for that in-between.
Each family member takes a short personality test. 15 minutes, from home. The system describes your patterns in everyday language:
"You need to talk things through. Your teenager needs to pull away first. It's not rejection – it's a pattern."
No judgments. No diagnoses. Just a shared language for what happens between you.
HOW IT WORKS
1. Create a family
2. Each member takes their test – adults and teenagers on their own phone, children via a parent's
3. See your personality profile for free
4. Buy reports that show the dynamics between you
5 REPORT TYPES
• Couple – where you match and where you clash
• Parent–child – patterns between you and your child
• Siblings – the dynamics between your children
• Family overview – your whole family's patterns in one place
• Individual – what makes you tick
PRIVATE BY DEFAULT
Your profile and reports are only visible to you. You decide if and who you share with.
START ALONE
You don't need to wait for the rest of your family. Take the test, see your profile, and invite when you're ready.
MORE THAN A TEST
• Personality profiles with radar charts
• Profile comparison across family members
• Weekly action suggestions based on your patterns
RESEARCH-BASED
Built on the Big Five and Interpersonal Circumplex – translated into 10 everyday themes like need for structure, social energy, emotional reactivity, and repair after conflict.
PRICING
Free to sign up, take tests, and view profiles. Reports are one-time purchases. No subscription, no commitment.