HERLI is a dating app for women who love women. It was created for those looking for a genuine connection, meaningful conversation and a relationship built on more than a first impression from a photo.

With HERLI, you discover what cannot be seen first.

COMPATIBILITY-BASED MATCHING

HERLI helps women connect through relationship compatibility. What matters includes your values, communication style, approach to intimacy, boundaries, needs and expectations for a relationship.

The Relationship Compass helps you understand yourself better and discover where you and another woman may be compatible.

BLIND DATE

Would you like to meet someone without judging her by a photo? Enter Blind Date and let yourself be surprised.

For the first 24 hours, you talk without seeing each other’s photos. This gives you space to focus on the conversation, personality and whether a genuine connection begins to develop. Afterwards, you both decide whether you want to reveal your photos and continue getting to know each other.

JOKER HELPS START THE CONVERSATION

Not sure what to ask? Use Joker to receive a random question that can break the ice, deepen your conversation or reveal a completely new side of the person you are talking to.

DISCOVER ON YOUR OWN TERMS

Browse profiles, meet women and choose the way of connecting that feels right for you. You can explore profiles in the classic way or try a Blind Date.

A SPACE CREATED FOR WOMEN

HERLI is designed exclusively for adult women who love women. The safety and authenticity of our community are especially important to us. That is why the app includes profile verification and simple tools for reporting or blocking users.

WITH HERLI, YOU CAN ENJOY:

• matching based on relationship compatibility,
• a 24-hour Blind Date without photos,
• the Relationship Compass,
• Joker questions that make starting conversations easier,
• profiles focused on values, needs and boundaries,
• a community of women who love women,
• features supporting safety and authenticity.

You do not have to choose with your eyes alone. Join HERLI, discover the woman behind the photo and let a Blind Date surprise you.

HERLI. Love starts deeper.

Dating for women who love women

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