Skip the endless texting. Start talking.

ToLo is a video-first dating app for singles aged 21+ who are ready for real connections. Match with singles nearby and video call instantly, or join live speed-dating events for an evening of face-to-face conversations.

HOW IT WORKS

Create your profile — Add photos, record a voice bio, and answer fun screening questions.
Swipe or join events — Browse daily profiles or register for curated live speed-dating events.
Match — When you both like each other, it's a match!
Video call — Skip the small talk. Jump straight to a real conversation.
LIVE SPEED-DATING EVENTS Join themed events with other singles. You'll be paired for short video dates, then vote on who you felt a connection with. Mutual votes become matches. It's speed dating, reimagined for the modern world.

VIDEO-FIRST DATING No more hiding behind a screen. ToLo is built around video calls so you can see and hear the real person before you ever meet in person. Every match comes with the option to video call directly in the app.

SAFETY IS OUR PRIORITY

Photo verification badges for authentic profiles
Block and report features for instant protection
Community guidelines enforced by a dedicated moderation team
FEATURES

Discover nearby singles and swipe through profiles
Join live speed-dating events with real-time video
Voice bios — hear someone's personality before you match
AI-generated icebreakers to kick off every conversation
Compatibility scoring based on your screening answers
Call credits for flexible video calling with matches
Event recaps with fun stats and highlights
Dark mode support
COMMUNITY GUIDELINES ToLo has 8 House Rules designed to make every date better — including "No Job Titles," "One Real Thing," and "Embrace the Awkward." We're building a community where real connection comes first.

ToLo is strictly for adults aged 21 and over. We do not knowingly allow users under 21.

Download ToLo and start having real conversations today.