LLMA is a matchmaking app for adults seeking intentional life partnerships, including lavender marriages, co-parenting arrangements, and chosen companionship.

A lavender marriage or lavender partnership is a consensual life partnership between adults, often between a gay man and a straight woman, built on shared values, mutual support, and a shared vision for the future rather than romantic attraction. LLMA helps adults who are interested in this type of partnership find compatible matches.

WHO IT IS FOR

Adults who are interested in forming a partnership built on shared values, life goals, and companionship rather than traditional romance.

Adults seeking a committed co-parenting partner.

Adults who want a longer, more thoughtful matching process focused on compatibility rather than appearance.

HOW IT WORKS

Profile
You create a profile describing who you are, what you value, and the kind of partnership you are looking for. Information is shared gradually as connections develop.

Compatibility Questions
The app includes a set of compatibility questions across topics such as lifestyle, finances, communication style, family planning, and long-term goals. Your answers help the app suggest profiles with similar values and goals.

Matching
The app suggests profiles based on the compatibility information you provide. There is no swipe-based interaction. You can review suggested profiles and choose whether to start a conversation.

Messaging
After you and another user mutually accept a match, you can exchange messages within the app. Users can report or block other users at any time.

Safety
You must be 18 or older to use LLMA. By using the app you agree to the Terms of Service and Community Guidelines. Every profile is manually reviewed by our team before it becomes visible to other users. The app includes in-app tools to report content, report users, and block users, and we take action on reports.

Terms of Service: https://www.llma.app/TermsOfService
Privacy Policy: https://www.llma.app/PrivacyPolicy