Relationships don't run on autopilot. Not Pink is a couples bucket list app that turns shared dreams into real plans, and real plans into memories worth keeping.

No polished highlight reels. No generic date-night tips. Just a private space for the two of you to agree on what you actually want to do together, and then go do it.

How it works

Every idea on your list moves through four phases:
• Align: Talk about what excites you both. An idea only moves forward once you both say yes.
• Plan: Suggest a day and a place. One of you proposes, the other agrees or suggests something else. Find a time that fits real life, not just the calendar.
• Prepare: Build a shared checklist and count down the days. Everything stays in one place.
• Relive: Pin photos, videos, voice notes and drawings to a Memory Board you make together. Loved it? Do it again.

Made for real couples

• Two yeses for every decision: nothing moves forward without both of you
• One chat per idea, with message starters for when you don't know where to begin
• Save ideas from TikTok, Instagram or any link you share to the app
• Swipe through date ideas to find what you both want
• See upcoming plans and past adventures on your map
• Vision boards to picture what you're building together
• 5 categories: Explore, Taste, Play, Create, Build
• Works offline and syncs when you reconnect

Free to start. One Premium subscription covers you both.

Not Pink is for couples who want to stop scrolling and start living. Whether you share a home or live across time zones, your bucket list starts here.

Privacy first. No ads. No data selling. Your love story stays yours.