Ukwanga i-extrovert yakho yangaphakathi kungase kuzwakale sengathi ungena endaweni engashiwongo, kodwa ungesabi! Ukuba nomphakathi kakhulu uhambo olujabulisayo oluqala ngezinyathelo ezilula, kancane kancane oluholela ekuzethembeni okusha kanye nokuba nobudlelwane.
Qala ngokuthatha izinyathelo zengane emhlabeni wokuxhumana nabantu. Qala ngenkulumo encane; qala ingxoxo nomakhelwane onobungane, osebenza naye, noma othile omi kulayini. Zijwayeze ukulalela ngokuzimisela - kuwubuciko obukusiza ukuthi uxhumane ngokujulile nabanye.
Ziphonsele inselelo yokuhambela imibuthano yokuzijabulisa noma imicimbi. Kungase kuzwakale kunzima ekuqaleni, kodwa khumbula, okuhlangenwe nakho ngakunye kuyithuba lokukhula. Phusha indawo yakho yokunethezeka kancane isikhathi ngasinye. Mhlawumbe uzibekele umgomo wokuba khona emcimbini owodwa ngesonto, noma ngisho ngenyanga, ukuze uqale ngawo.
Joyina amakilabhu noma amaqembu ahambisana nezintshisekelo zakho. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iklabhu yezincwadi, iqembu lokuqwala izintaba, noma ikilasi lokupheka, ukuba phakathi kwabantu abanomqondo ofanayo kungenza ukuzijabulisa kuzizwe kungokwemvelo futhi kujabulise.
Zijwayeze ukukhuluma nawe ngendlela eyakhayo. Zikhuthaze endleleni. Vuma inqubekelaphambili yakho futhi ubungaze ukunqoba okuncane. Khumbula, iRoma ayakhiwanga ngosuku olulodwa, futhi ayilona uhlobo oluqinisekayo lwe-extrovert yakho!
Okokugcina, yiba nesineke futhi ube nomusa kuwe. Ukuguqulela uvemvane olunomphakathi kakhulu kuthatha isikhathi. IRoma ayakhiwanga ngosuku olulodwa, kanjalo nekhono lakho lokuxhumana nabantu. Isinyathelo ngasinye osithathayo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sincane kangakanani, siyigxathu eliya kuwe ozethemba kakhudlwana futhi ophumayo.
Ngakho-ke, lungele ukusabalalisa amaphiko akho futhi ungene ezweni elimangalisayo lokusebenzelana komphakathi. Unakho lokhu!
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Jan 2, 2024