Blend: Polyamory & ENM Dating

TryBlend

About this app

Blend is a dating app for polyamory, open relationships, and ethical non-monogamy (ENM). Meet polyamorous singles, non-monogamous couples, and people exploring open relationships who already understand how you love. No explaining, no "so are you single?".

Mainstream dating apps assume one match, one relationship, and an exit. Blend assumes a network. Your partners, your metamours, and your polycule are part of the product, not a secret you disclose on the third message.

DISCOVER PEOPLE WHO GET IT
• Poly dating and ENM dating with people who list their relationship structure up front: polyamorous, open relationship, solo poly, relationship anarchy, and more.
• Filter by structure and intention: dating, friendship, couples looking to date together, or a new polycule connection.
• Couples date as a couple. Create a joint couple profile with consent from both partners and discover as a unit.
• Your own partners are never shown as matches. Blend knows who they are.

YOUR POLYCULE, MAPPED
The Nexus is a private relationship map no other dating app has. Add partners through mutually confirmed links, name each relationship (nesting partner, anchor, comet, and more), see metamours as real people in your world, and zoom from direct partners out to your extended network.

BUILT FOR NON-MONOGAMY, NOT ADAPTED TO IT
• Relationship agreements: co-author shared documents covering boundaries and expectations.
• STI test records shared with the audience you choose: private, partners only, matches, or public. Stored encrypted.
• Community vouches and a visible trust score.
• A group chat for your whole polycule, end-to-end encrypted.

SAFETY AND CONTROL
• Trusted emergency contacts and an optional date check-in with location sharing.
• An SOS tool that attempts alerts to your trusted contacts. Blend does not contact 911 or other emergency services for you.
• Block profiles, report users or single messages for human review, use disappearing messages and screen-privacy controls.
• End-to-end encrypted one-to-one and group messaging.

MORE WAYS TO CONNECT
• Find and RSVP to polyamory and ENM community events near you.
• Play compatibility and icebreaker games.
• Share selected calendar plans with people you trust.

WHO BLEND IS FOR
Polyamorous people, open couples, solo poly, relationship anarchists, throuples and triads, swingers, and anyone curious about ethical non-monogamy who wants a dating app that starts from honesty.

Blend is independent, ad-free, and free to use in this release. We do not sell personal data.

Blend is strictly for adults aged 18 and over. We have zero tolerance for child sexual abuse and exploitation, and for anyone under 18 using the service.

Terms of Service: https://www.tryblend.app/terms.html
Privacy Policy: https://www.tryblend.app/privacy.html
Community Guidelines: https://www.tryblend.app/guidelines.html
Delete your account: https://www.tryblend.app/delete-account.html

What’s new

You can now pick a city if you would rather not share your location, setup is smoother, and this release includes security and reliability work across the app.