Make friends through shared questions, one conversation at a time. ValuePair is a friendship app for adults who want to get to know one person at a time. You can choose friendship, dating, or both in your preferences.
START WITH WHAT MATTERS
Build your matching profile around your values, preferences, and what matters most to you. Choose your conversation languages and a reply rhythm that fits your life.
GET TO KNOW ONE PERSON AT A TIME
Focus on one discovery conversation. Thoughtful questions give you somewhere to start, so you do not have to invent the perfect opening message.
ANSWER FIRST, THEN REVEAL
You both answer the same questions at your own pace. Each answer stays hidden from the other person until you have both answered that question. Add a short note when you want to explain more. You can keep answering without waiting for your match to catch up.
CHOOSE WHAT COMES NEXT
After the discovery questions, decide independently whether you want to stay connected. If you both choose to continue, your private chat opens. Keep the conversations you both want to keep.
KEEP GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER
Explore question sets, answer a daily question together, or create your own set. You can also invite a friend or partner you already know to answer questions with you. Some extras, including custom sets and personal invitations, are marked Premium in the app; access depends on your account's entitlement.
YOUR CHOICES STAY YOURS
Your matching answers are not a public profile. You choose a city rather than sharing live GPS. Manage notifications, block or report someone, export your data, or delete your account from Settings.
ValuePair is for adults aged 18 and over. An internet connection is required. Match availability and waiting times depend on eligible, active members and your preferences. The app is available in English and German.
Make friends through shared questions and get to know one person at a time