PAM is THE social network for single parents and separated parents. Far more than a dating app for single moms and single dads.
The ONLY dating app that tells you whether your custody schedule matches the other person's. No other single-parent app does this. PAM does.
Meet, support each other, get organised, go out, breathe: a whole range of solutions in one place, built by a single parent who lives exactly what you live.
And PAM is open to everyone: to single parents and single-parent families, of course, but also to those who aren't parents and who are open to meeting and sharing the life of a single parent. Here, having kids is never a barrier: it's often what brings people together.
Here's what NO other single-parent dating app does:
★ 1. CUSTODY SCHEDULE MATCHING
The #1 problem for single parents with shared custody: meeting someone who has their kids the SAME weeks as you. Otherwise you're always out of sync, never free at the same time, and a relationship becomes impossible.
PAM solves this. Set up your custody schedule in seconds thanks to AUTO-FILL (alternating week, every other week, weekends... choose your pattern and the calendar fills itself in).
Then PAM builds a real CUSTODY REPORT with the other person:
- the compatibility percentage of your custody schedules,
- a DAY-BY-DAY breakdown across the month (match or no match),
- and above all the days when you're BOTH free, child-free, perfect for a date.
You instantly know if your schedules can work. A huge time-saver.
★ 2. PAMMATCH: COMPATIBILITY ACROSS 17 DIMENSIONS
Forget shallow swiping. Take the PamMatch quiz and get a FULL COMPATIBILITY REPORT between you and the other person, across 17 DIMENSIONS: communication, values, attachment, love languages, conflict handling, outlook on life, parenting, personality, intimacy, wellbeing and many more.
The result: an OVERALL compatibility score and a durability score, grounded in the best research on relationships. The very best way to know if it can truly last, for real, not just from a photo.
Custody compatibility (the logistics) + PamMatch compatibility (the depth) = you finally meet the right people.
★ 3. FACEPAM: BACK TO NATURAL, REAL-LIFE MEETINGS
Tired of endless swiping? FacePAM brings meeting people back to REAL LIFE.
Out somewhere (a bar, a park, an event)? Turn on FacePAM for as long as you like. PAM then shows the single parents around you, IN REAL TIME and with extreme GPS PRECISION (under 10 metres). One message, and you meet for real, right there. No more meeting behind a screen.
★ AND A REAL MUTUAL-AID NETWORK
PAM isn't just a dating app for single parents. It's the Hub of the single-parent community:
- Outings & events: create your own or join those of other parents near you.
- Helping Hand: occasional childcare, school carpooling, tutoring, small favours and mutual aid.
- Shared Nest: flatsharing and housing between single parents, so you never pay rent alone again.
- Little Market: sell, give or swap clothes, toys and baby gear.
- Zen Bubble: a wellbeing space to ease the mental load.
A SAFE, CARING COMMUNITY
Profiles verified at sign-up. A space designed for the safety of single-parent families and children, no judgement. You know exactly which single parent you're talking to.
PAM is free at launch. Join the community of single parents, single moms and single dads.
Because parents deserve to meet, to help each other, and to breathe too.
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Dating & support for single parents: custody matching, help, outings & community