Hotpoly: Polyamorous Dating

Hotpoly

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About this app

Hotpoly is a polyamory and ENM dating app built for polyamorous, non-monogamous and open-relationship people. Relationship styles, orientations and what you're seeking are first-class profile fields, so you can be specific about who you are and find people who are genuinely compatible.

Consent and privacy come first. Your location is obscured before it is ever stored, there are no third-party trackers in the app, and we never sell your data.

BUILT FOR HOW YOU ACTUALLY DATE
• Polyamorous and ethically non-monogamous styles as real profile fields: hierarchical, solo poly, relationship anarchy, kitchen-table, parallel and more
• Filter by relationship style, orientation and what someone is seeking, in both directions
• Link your profile to a partner's so the connection shows on both
• Individuals, couples and whole polycules are welcome

DELIBERATE MATCHING
• A match is a mutual opt-in: nobody can message you until you both say yes
• Chat opens only after a match
• No gamification, no micro-transactions, no pay-to-message

VERIFIED, SAFER PROFILES
• Everyone verifies they are 18 or older before using Hotpoly
• Photo verification matches a government ID to a selfie, then the selfie to your profile photos. We do not keep your ID
• Verified members get a visible badge
• Block and report tools on every profile; reports go to a human review team
• No individual can send you photos unless you allow it per chat

PRIVACY BY DESIGN
• Location obscured before it is stored; others only see an approximate distance
• No third-party trackers, no ad networks, no data sale
• Go undiscoverable any time without deleting anything
• Download or delete your data whenever you want

MORE WAYS TO CONNECT
• Temporary Location: browse another city before you travel
• Add favorite board games and books to your profile and find people who share them
• Push notifications for new matches and messages, each one optional

HOTPOLY PREMIUM (optional)
Hotpoly is free to use: creating a profile, discovery, matching and messaging cost nothing. Premium lets you see who likes your pictures, enables Smart Sort, which prioritizes profiles more likely to match with you, adds the ID Verified badge and allows weekly Temporary Location changes. $12.99/month, billed through Google Play, cancel anytime.

Hotpoly is for adults 18+ in the United States. Profile location is a US ZIP code.

Whether you call it polyamory, ENM, an open relationship or non-monogamy, Hotpoly is dating built around consent and privacy. Join free and find your people.

Questions? hotpoly.org/contact
Safety policy: hotpoly.org/safety
Privacy: hotpoly.org/privacy