Find out what your texts say about your relationship. ChatMend reads one conversation you choose and gives an attachment style analysis for both people (secure, anxious, avoidant or fearful-avoidant), along with communication patterns, mixed signals, pursue-withdraw cycles and practical next steps. Works with text messages and WhatsApp chat exports.

ChatMend is not a medical device and does not diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any medical condition. Consult a qualified professional for advice. ChatMend gives automated, informational insight into how two people communicate. It is not therapy and not emergency help.

HOW IT WORKS
1. Save one conversation as a file with the ChatMend SMS Backup app (XML, JSON, CSV or TXT).
2. Import that one file into ChatMend. ChatMend never reads the texts on your phone; it only sees the file you choose.
3. Pick which name is you, the kind of relationship, and which messages to include.
4. Choose a Quick Look or a Complete Report.

QUICK LOOK (FREE)
Measured entirely on your phone; nothing is uploaded. See who reaches out first, typical and slowest reply times, the longest silences, and how the conversation changed over time.

COMPLETE REPORT
An AI-written report on the whole conversation: an attachment-style read for each person with how confident it is, recurring patterns and triggers, strengths and concerns, and practical scripts for hard conversations. Ask follow-up questions about the report. Re-opening a conversation you have already paid for is free.

LIBRARY
Plain-language guides to attachment styles, a relationship self-test, communication playbooks, and compatibility notes.

YOUR DATA
- You must be 18 or older and have the right to share the conversation you import.
- For a Complete Report, the messages you select are sent securely to ChatMend's server and to our AI provider to write the report. The messages themselves are not kept; the report is saved so you can reopen it.
- No ads. No account or sign-up.
- Delete everything at any time in Settings > Delete My Data.
- You can report any AI result you find harmful or inaccurate from inside the report.

If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, contact local emergency services or a crisis line right away. In the US, call or text 988.

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