INFLUENCING AND BEING INFLUENCED: ... a non ending story

Adrian Gabriel Dumitru

Adrian Gabriel Dumitru

About this ebook

In many of the occasions in life, we see everything in a simple dogmatic way.

We are used with different kinds of results and believe that these represents the only case scenarios that can happen.

We want something else, but don’t really believe that life can bring us the ... goodies.

We predict the future, according to the past.

But you know, same story, with the same elements can also have a different result than we are used to expect.

We can influence reality ... just by expecting something totally different that we used to have.

For example ... there are cases when the Universe is sending us the same lesson on and on and on ... till the day when we understand that we need to do things differently to get a different result ... and

improve everything happens.

Sometimes we are good theoreticians, sometimes we can’t even see clearly reality and understand the meaning of the events ... especially the negative ones.

But having optimistic standards can help us break any problem ... and in the end influence the energetic field of any situation, event .. or

even the energetic field of other people.

And when i use the term ... energetic field ... i mean the environment itself, with all its attributes that defines everything in a certain way.

I can give a simple example.

I was in a morning in my garden, reading a book.

I was on a chair, in a specific place from my garden ... and i use to use that place by almost 10 years.

From that point, i see the beauty of my garden in a specific way, but because it was a very hot day, and the sun came in that point, i had

to move the chair in a different place from the garden, not to stay anymore in the sun.

I was amazed.

I almost saw a different garden from that position.

I loved it ... but everything was a totally different perspective.

This was a simple case scenario ... seeing even something beautiful, from a different angle and almost believe is something else.

But in theory, and even in practice, we can have even negative perspectives totally metamorphosized into positive one.

We can change the script of any scenario, by re-evaluate everything ... just by expecting of getting a positive result ... the one we desire.

This is how, only by having an opened mind, ignoring the statistical datas from your past, the one that defines the probability of having a

certain scenario ... we can actually influence, but also change the reality itself.

And what we define as miracle ... is in fact just changing the believe into the fact that ... life can be also the way we dare to dream.

Truth be told, the reality can be created or even re-created in any way we want it to happen.

All we need to do is to connect to that energetic field, which actually means ... be one with the present moment ... and expect as

everything should happen in a specific way that you want.

Even the miracle itself is just a different result ... the one that we had in mind and wanted.

So ... realities can be defined, redefined, but also written in any specific way.

A hollywoodian movie ... has amazing scenes and all the scenes are a telling the details of the story ... so that it will have a powerful

message, but also powerful impact on you.

You connect with the reality of those scenes, but most probably the same scene was filmed by 5th - 7th ... even 15th times, till they

considered they had the perfect one.

The same way, certain events could be redefined by us, just by meditating, finding the best solution for that event ... and then

implemented in the real life.

And try ... and try again ... till the moment it just happens.

And the life can look like a hollywoodian movie also ... by using the power of re-evaluation, re-defining and keeping an opened mind,

expecting all the time positive scenarios for our lives.

We are the creators of our reality ... by conscious or unconscious thoughts ... but in the end we should keep in our mind that what

looks like a negative script, might be just a life lesson ... not finding yet the right path in life ... but every scenario can be re written in the

way we want it to happen.

The key?! I mean the key of getting out of the labyrinth ... is connecting to that reality ... that energetic field ... and have great

expectations from it.

So ... even if you don’t know it yet ... there is an art of influencing reality and you can learn it.

Ratings and reviews

I am fan of this author...the stories written and his perception of life is always refreshing, making you look inside yourself re-questioning moments of past, present and future.

Philosophical essays. A real nice explanation of why we are under so many influences…. But also why we want all the time to influence the people close to us.

"I couldn't put this book down! The writing is exquisite, and the story is so emotionally resonant. A definite must-read for anyone who loves a good page-turner."

About the author

I’ve started to write my first book at 16 … but then … realizing i could not publish it … i’ve abandoned the idea of being a … writer.

20 years later … i’ve started to write again … believing i will finally succeed … but i’ve failed one more time … not getting the success i was chasing for.

Another 5 years later … i’ve started one more time to write … but this time … more as a therapy.

It’s what i’ve defined as … self therapy.

I was analyzing and defining lots of weird ideas … that were a lot related to me … and my own soul.

I totally forgot that i was chasing for success.

I was simple writing my thoughts … in essays … becoming this way … maybe not a writer …. but what many define as … an essayist.

This is not a poet … and not a writer.

Or maybe is kind of a poet that is incapable of writing poetry … but is still expressing his thoughts … into a similar way … as a poet.

And is not a writer … cause have not the ability to write for too long time … about the same subject.

But maybe i am not an essayist… either.

I am just an ordinary person … that could be better defined … as a thinker.

Analyzing … and defining my life … practicing this process called … self therapy … i started to understand life … and the way to better paths which i should follow.

And i’ve wrote … and wrote … and wrote … realizing one day that i’ve published tens of books …. not really understanding how the hell I’ve succeeded doing that.

Today i dare to recommend writing … as a therapy.

I could even say … it’s a simple way of understanding who we are … but also a process that could help us … heal our souls.

I personally continue to … write.

It’s in fact … a non ending story that … at least for myself … will probably continue for the rest of my life.

But over all … i am glad … i am doing it.

I continue my philosophical journey … not being able to define myself for clear as a writer or an essayist… but …

Well …. most probably… i am on a good path.

And … i would dare to recommend to everyone … all what i am doing today.