131 Dirty Talk Examples: Learn How To Talk Dirty with These Simple Phrases That Drive Your Lover Wild & Beg You For Sex Tonight

Elizabeth Cramer

Mar 2015 · Better Sex Educational Series Book 1 · Living Plus Healthy Publishing

About this ebook

Are you one of those people who want to spice up their love life with the addition of dirty talk, longing to hear certain words or phrases whispered, moaned, growled, or simply uttered but just plain don’t know how to get started?

The first thing to understand is that dirty talk isn’t dirty. There’s nothing shameful or wrong about it.

Men and women are hard-wired differently. Men like to hear, while women like to visualize, and that’s completely natural too. A man wants to hear what their partner wants done to them, or wants to do for them before it’s done. Hearing the words, screamed, moaned, whimpered, or whispered just flat out does it for most men.

Women like to hear the words and imagine what those words or phrases will mean to them, how their partner will react, or how something will feel, even seconds or milliseconds beforehand, giving their brains time to process the possibilities, thus heightening the sensations.

In this guide you will learn 131 tried-and-tested, proven-to-work phrases you can use for getting your partner in the mood, during foreplay, during & after love making. Both for-man & for-woman phrases are included. You will learn many ways to get started talking dirty and how to build it up gradually so you are comfortable & sound confident when you say them. Using correctly they will make your lover addicted to your voice & drive him/her wild in bed.

Ratings and reviews

I didn't dislike it, it just was far less than expected. It would be ok for someone just starting to experiment but for many of us it's more a list of the tried and true.

With dirty talk the most important thing is communication, not just in the bedroom. This book not only gives you tips and ideas, but also takes into account your personal comfort zone, so you can go at your own pace. Once finished with the comfort zone, you can choose what you want from the book depending on what you and your partner want. This is a very inclusive book and easy to understand, I would recommend it to anyone looking to spice things up.

I liked this book and found it very helpful and insightful. I tend to be shy with dirty talk and my husband is always complaining that he wishes I would say more sexy things. It’s just not natural to me to talk dirty but I have realized, after reading this book, that it is a hugely important thing to do. It is a simple thing that I can do to satisfy him and make him feel sexy and wanted.

About the author

Elizabeth Cramer is a sex therapist, BDSM educator, and the author of several best selling sex education books including “131 Dirty Talk Examples,” “Make Her Orgasm Again and Again,” “Care and Nurture for the Submissive,” “Submissive Training (vol. 1-3),” “Dom's Guide to Submissive Training (vol. 1-3).”

While pursuing her interests in psychology at college, Elizabeth learnt how to critically read and analyze people. This included herself, which is why at 23, she dared to reach out and touch a darker corner that interested her, something people only joked about at parties. She was looking into BDSM, and found many different communities built on the topic. Cautiously, her account was created to shyly prowl around the forums and read what people had to say. 

It took eight months of lurking around on-line forums before Elizabeth finally picked up the courage to join her first meet-up. It wasn’t as awkward as she had thought, people were nice, encouraging, and it was like finding a new group of friends in which she could confide in about her slightly special preference. She embraced BDSM lifestyle fully and has never looked back since.

At age of 29, Elizabeth graduated with Master’s degree in psychology and earned certification for private therapy practice. While she was qualified in counselling for a variety of situations, she decided to focus on sex therapy. As a side business, she would speak as a part-time lecturer at her old university and others on the topic of sex education and human sexuality. 

While her practice flourishes, in her spare time, Elizabeth writes books to enlighten the public on alternative lifestyles. She has also authored several romance novels and erotica. 

In her personal life, Elizabeth and her Dominant partner have formed a perfect D/s relationship for over three years now. Though not yet married to him, she was able to find love in her life and still balance her work life.