Just Show Up: The Dance of Walking through Suffering Together

Kara Tippetts · Jill Lynn Buteyn

Oct 2015 · David C Cook

About this ebook

Kara Tippetts’s story was not a story of disease, although she lost her battle with terminal cancer. It was not a story of saying goodbye, although she was intentional in her time with her husband and four children. Kara’s story was one of seeing God in the hard and in the good. It was one of finding grace in the everyday. And it was one of knowing “God with us” through fierce and beautiful friendship.

In Just Show Up, Kara and her close friend, Jill Lynn Buteyn, write about what friendship looks like in the midst of changing life seasons, loads of laundry, and even cancer. Whether you are eager to be present to someone going through a difficult time or simply want inspiration for pursuing friends in a new way, this eloquent and practical book explores the gift of silence, the art of receiving, and what it means to just show up.

Ratings and reviews

Even though I have had opportunities to personally observe and enter the very journey Kara and Jill write about, I am amazed, humbled and inspired by the account of compassion, kindness, sharing, hoping, bumbling, caring, communicating and seeking togetherness through suffering. In reading, I have learned new and practical ways to support and pray for my friends and family who hurt, and to recognize their willingness to reach out to me in my own trials. Showing up is neither scripted nor easy, but it is worth it both now and in eternity. You will not be sorry you read this book, nor that you followed any of its recommendations. Genuine love is always big, even when it may feel small, and it always shows up.

Just as Kara Tippetts book "The Hardest Peace" touched my heart with her openness and honesty about how tough things in this life can attack us but God is still God in the midst of it all and His love reaches us where we live. Kara and Jill Lynn Butelyn did a fabulous job of keeping out focus on how we can help others in their hard times. Keeping our eyes on "it's not about me" but on doing what is needed for others so as to glorify God will help[ us in our own times of "hard". This book will touch your heart and challenge you to go beyond our comfort zones to be a light in this dark world. Kara showed she is God's child up til her death and did not waver from seeing His blessings in the midst of her journey. Wow!

Kara Tippets battled cancer for two and a half years. During that time, many friends came around the Tippetts family to support and serve them. Kara is now home in Heaven, but before passing from this life to the next, she and her friend, Jill Lynn Buteyn, wrote a book about walking with a friend through suffering. Kara and Jill loved and served each other well, and their friendship is an example to follow. Their book, Just Show Up, will be a helpful resource to others who are going through a season of suffering with a friend. It can be difficult to know how to be there for a friend who is suffering. In Just Show Up, Kara and Jill share practical ideas of ways to be there for, and serve, a family in need. They allow the reader a peek into the community that surrounded the Tippetts family during the past three years. They are open about the hard parts and the awkward parts. They share about the tension, the struggles, the insecurities, and the highs and lows. They share honestly about the fact that mistakes were made and that grace was needed. Just Show Up has a conversational tone, making you feel like you are right there chatting with Kara and Jill as they share about facing hard times of suffering together. They speak to the one who is walking through suffering with a friend as well as to the one who is suffering herself. I especially appreciated the personal stories that were shared from the community of support that surrounded the Tippetts family. It was a beautiful thing to see how the body of Christ can come alongside a suffering member and love them well in their hard season. Just Show Up is for the one with a friend who is suffering and in need of help and support. It is for the one who wants to be there for a friend in need, but doesn’t know what to do. It is for the one who is chronically ill and is needing guidance regarding her role in friendship when her abilities are limited. This would be a great book for two friends, one who is ill and one who is healthy, to read together as they navigate the awkwardness that comes when friendship is lopsided because one friend simply can’t give much. It would also be a great book for a group of friends to read together as they prepare to show up for a friend in need. I highly recommend this book! I received a review copy of Just Show Up from David C. Cook via NetGalley. All opinions are my own.

About the author

The late Kara Tippetts was the author of The Hardest Peace and blogged faithfully at mundanefaithfulness.com. Cancer was only a part of Kara’s story. Her real fight was to truly live while facing a crushing reality. Since her death in March 2015, her husband, Jason, is parenting their four children and leading the church they founded in Colorado Springs, Colorado.

Jill Lynn Buteyn is the author of Falling for Texas, an inspirational novel, and a recipient of the ACFW Genesis Award for her fiction work. She has a bachelor’s degree in communications from Bethel University. Jill lives near the beautiful Rocky Mountains with her husband and two children. Connect with her on social media and at Jill-Lynn.com.