If Only He’d Told Me: A foster family pushed to the limits (HarperTrue Life – A Short Read)

Mia Marconi

Sep 2014 · Sold by HarperCollins UK

About this ebook

The third in a series of true short stories from foster carer Mia Marconi.

Brody had been on the at-risk register since birth but was only removed from his alcoholic parents when he reached the age of six. Foster carer Mia Marconi was thrilled when he first arrived – a boy the same age as her son.

It can be so bewildering for foster children when they arrive. The older ones are usually withdrawn and sullen. The younger ones will be screaming, spitting at you, making themselves sick and throwing themselves on the floor.

For Mia, it’s normally her boisterous, happy children who provide the comfort at the beginning, because why should they trust another adult. Children always feel safe and secure when there are other children about. Mia believes it’s through making relationships with other children that they begin to trust adults again. But little did she know that six-year-old Brody was actually taking his anger and frustration out on her son. She quickly begins to realise the heavy price her family has had to pay.

Ratings and reviews

Mia puts an aggressive violent child first and her family suffers as a result. Sad that she can't see the lad is bullying her own son. Also, £50 pocket money for a 12 yo lad on a weekend camping trip - why so much???

It's so hard and I don't think it's given enough attention, we know that institutions are not good for children but sometimes foster carers cannot help a child determined not to be helped, Mia and her family were amazing to brody who was a nasty bully to them. Eventually a halt had to be called and it's amazing she stuck it for 6 years.

A great short book of a foster parents challenges dealing with other people's children and the importance of still trying to be a good parent to their own children. Gripping true story.

About the author

Mia Marconi has an Italian father and an Irish mother. She grew up in London and has been a foster carer here for over 20 years. During that time she has welcomed more than 250 children into her home.

To protect the identities of people she is writing about she is using a pseudonym.