Three Little Words: A Memoir

Ashley Rhodes-Courter

Jun 2008 · Simon and Schuster

About this ebook

An inspiring true story of the tumultuous nine years the author spent in the foster care system, and how she triumphed over painful memories and real-life horrors to ultimately find her own voice.

“Sunshine, you’re my baby and I’m your only mother. You must mind the one taking care of you, but she’s not your mama.” Ashley Rhodes-Courter spent nine years of her life in fourteen different foster homes, living by those words. As her mother spirals out of control, Ashley is left clinging to an unpredictable, dissolving relationship, all the while getting pulled deeper and deeper into the foster care system.

Painful memories of being taken away from her home quickly become consumed by real-life horrors, where Ashley is juggled between caseworkers, shuffled from school to school, and forced to endure manipulative, humiliating treatment from a very abusive foster family. In this inspiring, unforgettable memoir, Ashley finds the courage to succeed—and in doing so, discovers the power of speaking out.

Ratings and reviews

i was not able to read the whole book but from what i read i love this book.it is fantastic.I think that living a life like this little girl did would be terrible.after i read it i looked at life differently and was more satisfied with it knowing that my life could always be worse and that its not really that bad.

Such a gripping story of how messed up the system can be in the foster care system. While so few cases end on a happy note, it is what we need to hear and advocate to ensure more children find healthy, loving and supported homes. This book hit all the emotions good and bad. Being a CASA volunteer is for the good of these children and I an so happy to be going through training.

Recommended by my granddaughter Madison....a very well written story tho very sad. I enjoyed reading it very much! Aug. 5, 2008

About the author

Ashley Rhodes-Courter has been featured in Teen People, The New York Times, USA TODAY, and Glamour, as well as on Good Morning America. Her first memoir, Three Little Words, began as an essay, which won a writing contest for high school students, and was published in The New York Times Magazine. She is also the author of Three More Words. A graduate of Eckerd College and a champion for the reformation of the foster care system, Ashley speaks internationally on foster care and adoption. Visit her at Rhodes-Courter.com.